With my second divorce court coming up this Wednesday, I couldn't help but to send my soon to be ex wife the following email.
"You and your lawyer can keep trying to make me look like some money grubbing person in order to disguise the fact that YOU left your husband during a time of his greatest need because you felt "overwhelmed" and "tired". You had absolutely no qualms in taking over 69K of a settlement which came as a direct result of the accident and had the accident no taken place, you would be leaving the marriage with substantially less than what you are leaving now.
The settlement may no longer be on the table, but I will make sure to do my best at reminding the court that in leaving the marriage you no longer has to ever have to deal with the effects of the accident for which you received a substantial amount of money from, while I have to live with this disability for the rest of my life. You took advantage of me being in a weakened emotional state and manipulated me into making a legal decision (to settle in a loss of consortium) which ultimately benefited YOU more than it did me, and once that ball was rolling, you left with and showed NO remorse. I should have pushed for the injury case. Considering that the hospital fucked up my hand, we could have questioned the accuracy of whatever bullshit blood alcohol test they conducted. Either way, if I would have gotten nothing from it I would be in the same position as I am now and at least then you wouldnt have gotten anything and truly could have left this marriage with what you got from it.
No matter what the you and your lawyer allude to in your argument, the facts remain that I am not leaving this marriage in the same position as I entered it. In fact I am leaving it in a worse position, while you is leaving it with a better paying job, no debt, a net worth of over $120K (vs my net worth of over -$40K), and completely able bodied. You make 2.5 times what I make a year, you have no debt, and never have to deal with this again. How the hell is it that you have been more than generous?
I gave up being with my family, my goals, my future just so you could be happy, have what you wanted, and we could have a future together. payments she made for Burgos's rent, auto, and all manner of other payments she made for him during the course of the marriage. Are you serious? First of all that what a marriage is and how about everything I did for you before we were even married. If it wasnt for me and my support, you wouldnt even be working for the FBI. You would have never become a cop. THINK ABOUT IT. You wouldnt have even have known Leo if it wasnt for me.
Im entitled to half just like you claim you were. Its not like its asking for much anyways compared to what you got out of it. But as always, you are selfishness, sense of entitlement, and ungratefulness blind you from you own actions in order to justify them in your eyes and to blind those around you.
Im sure you justify all this in your own mind by making me out to look like the enemy and asshole in all this. You can use your PTSD as an excuse, but you will NEVER experience what have to live with now. I can only hope that one day karma hits you and you get to feel exactly what it feels like to be screwed over and what I am going through.
Just know this If your lawyer decides to keep ignoring my lawyer and chooses to keep fighting, I will go until I have absolutely nothing left.
On top of that I will do everything in my power to make sure anyone and everyone know every single detail of what you did and how you have treated me in all this, how much money you left this marriage with, and what you left me with. It wont matter what bullshit lies you have told people. Once people here what you got out of it and how you left me 8 month after the accident but took Half of a settlement which came as a direct result and ONLY as a result of me losing my leg; that alone will show how fucked up you are. On top of that, how you have me committed, took all the animals, left town before I even got out, and left me with NOTHING before I was even walking. I will put you on blast all over Facebook and any other avenue that I can use.
You have shown no remorse with me, why the hell should I give a crap about continuing to be cordial with you? I dont have anything to lose."
"You and your lawyer can keep trying to make me look like some money grubbing person in order to disguise the fact that YOU left your husband during a time of his greatest need because you felt "overwhelmed" and "tired". You had absolutely no qualms in taking over 69K of a settlement which came as a direct result of the accident and had the accident no taken place, you would be leaving the marriage with substantially less than what you are leaving now.
The settlement may no longer be on the table, but I will make sure to do my best at reminding the court that in leaving the marriage you no longer has to ever have to deal with the effects of the accident for which you received a substantial amount of money from, while I have to live with this disability for the rest of my life. You took advantage of me being in a weakened emotional state and manipulated me into making a legal decision (to settle in a loss of consortium) which ultimately benefited YOU more than it did me, and once that ball was rolling, you left with and showed NO remorse. I should have pushed for the injury case. Considering that the hospital fucked up my hand, we could have questioned the accuracy of whatever bullshit blood alcohol test they conducted. Either way, if I would have gotten nothing from it I would be in the same position as I am now and at least then you wouldnt have gotten anything and truly could have left this marriage with what you got from it.
No matter what the you and your lawyer allude to in your argument, the facts remain that I am not leaving this marriage in the same position as I entered it. In fact I am leaving it in a worse position, while you is leaving it with a better paying job, no debt, a net worth of over $120K (vs my net worth of over -$40K), and completely able bodied. You make 2.5 times what I make a year, you have no debt, and never have to deal with this again. How the hell is it that you have been more than generous?
I gave up being with my family, my goals, my future just so you could be happy, have what you wanted, and we could have a future together. payments she made for Burgos's rent, auto, and all manner of other payments she made for him during the course of the marriage. Are you serious? First of all that what a marriage is and how about everything I did for you before we were even married. If it wasnt for me and my support, you wouldnt even be working for the FBI. You would have never become a cop. THINK ABOUT IT. You wouldnt have even have known Leo if it wasnt for me.
Im entitled to half just like you claim you were. Its not like its asking for much anyways compared to what you got out of it. But as always, you are selfishness, sense of entitlement, and ungratefulness blind you from you own actions in order to justify them in your eyes and to blind those around you.
Im sure you justify all this in your own mind by making me out to look like the enemy and asshole in all this. You can use your PTSD as an excuse, but you will NEVER experience what have to live with now. I can only hope that one day karma hits you and you get to feel exactly what it feels like to be screwed over and what I am going through.
Just know this If your lawyer decides to keep ignoring my lawyer and chooses to keep fighting, I will go until I have absolutely nothing left.
On top of that I will do everything in my power to make sure anyone and everyone know every single detail of what you did and how you have treated me in all this, how much money you left this marriage with, and what you left me with. It wont matter what bullshit lies you have told people. Once people here what you got out of it and how you left me 8 month after the accident but took Half of a settlement which came as a direct result and ONLY as a result of me losing my leg; that alone will show how fucked up you are. On top of that, how you have me committed, took all the animals, left town before I even got out, and left me with NOTHING before I was even walking. I will put you on blast all over Facebook and any other avenue that I can use.
You have shown no remorse with me, why the hell should I give a crap about continuing to be cordial with you? I dont have anything to lose."