Ive definitely stepped into a serious conundrum:
So about a month back some girl Im friends with(sort of, I mean we dont talk often or anything) posted a picture of makeup she did on one of her friends. So I commented that frankly the girl was attractive(as she was, shes gorgeous). Well the girl replied, and that was it for awhile. Fast forward to around 2 weeks ago, same scenario, same reply. So this time I just took the initiative(for once) and contacted her basically saying "Didnt we do this already? Except we havent met.....yet". Weve been talking ever since and a constant string of commenting and clicking "like" on each other's business(ah Facebook, lame I know but fuck it). So once again I took the initiative and messaged her with my number and basically threw out the idea of talkin' outside of FB. So tonight she replies, and well, I don't know how to take it. She basically says she's in a relationship but says its a horrible one(earlier in the night her status was just "shoot me"), she said she wants to be up front(which is appreciated) but almost coyly implicated she likes talking to me and said we could "keep liking things"(FB and all).
So yeah, what to do right? I mean clearly she isnt happy with whoever she's with and it feels like she may be interested in some sense. But Im bad at figuring these things out so I have no fucking idea.
Thoughts???
.....and while were at it this song seems appropriate:
So about a month back some girl Im friends with(sort of, I mean we dont talk often or anything) posted a picture of makeup she did on one of her friends. So I commented that frankly the girl was attractive(as she was, shes gorgeous). Well the girl replied, and that was it for awhile. Fast forward to around 2 weeks ago, same scenario, same reply. So this time I just took the initiative(for once) and contacted her basically saying "Didnt we do this already? Except we havent met.....yet". Weve been talking ever since and a constant string of commenting and clicking "like" on each other's business(ah Facebook, lame I know but fuck it). So once again I took the initiative and messaged her with my number and basically threw out the idea of talkin' outside of FB. So tonight she replies, and well, I don't know how to take it. She basically says she's in a relationship but says its a horrible one(earlier in the night her status was just "shoot me"), she said she wants to be up front(which is appreciated) but almost coyly implicated she likes talking to me and said we could "keep liking things"(FB and all).
So yeah, what to do right? I mean clearly she isnt happy with whoever she's with and it feels like she may be interested in some sense. But Im bad at figuring these things out so I have no fucking idea.
Thoughts???
.....and while were at it this song seems appropriate: