Hmm. So i'm a little frustrated today (well i have been for about a week and a half now) and i usually don't vent about family or what not but JEEZ my sister is driving me CRAZY!
It's always like a competition to her, no matter what it is.
We go camping, i spent $45 on food for camping and she "spent like $130...so there!"
I got my niece (who's nearly 3) a book called The Very Musy Spider and my niece wanted m to read it to here and my sisters like "Well I wanted to get that book for her and I want to read it to, so I will!!"
Or the sweater she bought me last year, it was effing COLD up north in fact it SNOWED while we were camping, and i said she could wear my sweater "Noooo it's Soooo ugly and it makes me look like a pea it's not in fashion, gross"
Then of course there is the well 'I' have a town home and 'I' have a kid and YOU can't because you are not as fertile as ME and ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME....
IS there ever going to be a day where our relationship can JUST me a nice family roohaha?
Does it Always have to be a competition? It's not like i go out of my way to rub shit it ever. I mean even on my birthday party she totally turned the ENTIRE night around on her and got more wasted than i did, and was dissing me because i didn't want to start taking shots at 6PM.
What? I wanted to last the ENTIRE night of my birthday.
I feel so petty writing about this here but FUCK i mean i can't do it anywhere else without someone she knows reading it and then the battle will begin of "I can write a bitchier blog than you can"
I'm not trying to be a bitch, she's my sister and is older than me (but only by 18 months) but it's always something with her.
It just gets so frustrating when i don't want a sibling rivalry yet no matter what i say or do it's a put down or competition.
Anyone else ever get this? Is it just MY family that fucked up in this way?
I'm so confused...
It's always like a competition to her, no matter what it is.
We go camping, i spent $45 on food for camping and she "spent like $130...so there!"
I got my niece (who's nearly 3) a book called The Very Musy Spider and my niece wanted m to read it to here and my sisters like "Well I wanted to get that book for her and I want to read it to, so I will!!"
Or the sweater she bought me last year, it was effing COLD up north in fact it SNOWED while we were camping, and i said she could wear my sweater "Noooo it's Soooo ugly and it makes me look like a pea it's not in fashion, gross"
Then of course there is the well 'I' have a town home and 'I' have a kid and YOU can't because you are not as fertile as ME and ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME....
IS there ever going to be a day where our relationship can JUST me a nice family roohaha?
Does it Always have to be a competition? It's not like i go out of my way to rub shit it ever. I mean even on my birthday party she totally turned the ENTIRE night around on her and got more wasted than i did, and was dissing me because i didn't want to start taking shots at 6PM.
What? I wanted to last the ENTIRE night of my birthday.
I feel so petty writing about this here but FUCK i mean i can't do it anywhere else without someone she knows reading it and then the battle will begin of "I can write a bitchier blog than you can"
I'm not trying to be a bitch, she's my sister and is older than me (but only by 18 months) but it's always something with her.
It just gets so frustrating when i don't want a sibling rivalry yet no matter what i say or do it's a put down or competition.
Anyone else ever get this? Is it just MY family that fucked up in this way?
I'm so confused...
And as for the rivalry, the only advice I can think if is to make it obvious to her that you truly, honestly, completely don't give a fuck. So what if she wants to read your niece the book? So what if she wants to start doing shots early? When she is striving that hard for attention, just let her see that you couldn't care one way or the other.