Another day! I wrote a long ass letter to an old friend. We've been having a power struggle through text message. It sounds stupid, but it's complicated.
I basically became the shittiest friend ever towards her, because I felt like she was a shitty friend. She'd only talk to me when she needed something, or had a problem. She'd come over, and talk for 2 hours straight, and then leave. I swear to god, I never got a word in. So when she texted me, which was "Hey! What's up?!", I ignored it. I even answered once or twice, stuff like, I'm okay, not feeling too good, and she'd just EXPLODE with information.
To understand, one must know that this friend, while we were seniors in highschool, responded to the question "Have you kissed him yet?" (in reference to her boyfriend) with a "EW! No!"
So, her immaturity ruined my patience. I started to ignore her, and then I realized that I was being an equally shitty friend. I felt so bad, so I replied to her text message, but now it's a power struggle.
I know it's because she's probably mad at me for being a bad friend. So I tried to be really nice, and she gave me nothing. The other night, after not wanting to, but being desperate, I texted her for a favor. She didn't text me until noon the next day. So, last night, I ignored her text until today. I texted "Hey" and she texted "Hey" one half hour later.
I decided I'm done with that bullshit. I can't deal with the shit in my life and this stupid ass power struggle.
I apologized for being a shitty friend, and explained why I did what I did.
WHOA! I just spent 20mins talking to her on the phone... she called. We'll be hanging out soon, and I'm really really happy about that. We haven't really talked in about a year, so we have a TON of catching up to do.
I feel so much better! She wanted to hang out tonight, but we don't have money, or food, or anything. She said she'd pay for some beer and stuff, but no way. I'm not going to invite her over for the first time in so long and be like, hey bitches, hand over the money!
It wouldn't go down like that, but that is how I'd feel. So no thanks. : )
Hopefully life is about to turn around... Like my mom said, "When it rains, it pours". Hopefully the storm is about to break!
I basically became the shittiest friend ever towards her, because I felt like she was a shitty friend. She'd only talk to me when she needed something, or had a problem. She'd come over, and talk for 2 hours straight, and then leave. I swear to god, I never got a word in. So when she texted me, which was "Hey! What's up?!", I ignored it. I even answered once or twice, stuff like, I'm okay, not feeling too good, and she'd just EXPLODE with information.
To understand, one must know that this friend, while we were seniors in highschool, responded to the question "Have you kissed him yet?" (in reference to her boyfriend) with a "EW! No!"
So, her immaturity ruined my patience. I started to ignore her, and then I realized that I was being an equally shitty friend. I felt so bad, so I replied to her text message, but now it's a power struggle.
I know it's because she's probably mad at me for being a bad friend. So I tried to be really nice, and she gave me nothing. The other night, after not wanting to, but being desperate, I texted her for a favor. She didn't text me until noon the next day. So, last night, I ignored her text until today. I texted "Hey" and she texted "Hey" one half hour later.
I decided I'm done with that bullshit. I can't deal with the shit in my life and this stupid ass power struggle.
I apologized for being a shitty friend, and explained why I did what I did.
WHOA! I just spent 20mins talking to her on the phone... she called. We'll be hanging out soon, and I'm really really happy about that. We haven't really talked in about a year, so we have a TON of catching up to do.
I feel so much better! She wanted to hang out tonight, but we don't have money, or food, or anything. She said she'd pay for some beer and stuff, but no way. I'm not going to invite her over for the first time in so long and be like, hey bitches, hand over the money!
It wouldn't go down like that, but that is how I'd feel. So no thanks. : )
Hopefully life is about to turn around... Like my mom said, "When it rains, it pours". Hopefully the storm is about to break!
I hope everything with your friend works out! Have fun when you guys get together