So..
Its 1.47am......it was supposed to be a good night out with my best friend Leah and my other half and his good friend...it all turned to disaster. Looks like me and my fiance have split up, and me and leah have also fallen out.
It all started with me talking to a guy I havent seen in YEARS. We went out for a month but then decided we are better off as friends, anyway, he was due to be married in July so I simply asked him how it went! My partner got stressed out simply because the guy and I had history. WTF.
Then later it gets more heated, he smashes the coffee table....GREAT JUST FUCKING GREAT. Im at the end of my tether, im lost, I cant afford this place on my own, and now he has left. Im not sure what to do. We have split up but I am the one who is picking up the pieces. I dont even know why we have. He said to me that Leah said that I was a hypocrite, so I brought that up with her and she simply stormed out my flat with all her stuff. I really could do with someone to talk to right now as I feel more alone than ever.
So if ANYONE is out there please please I really need advice or someone to talk to...
xx
Its 1.47am......it was supposed to be a good night out with my best friend Leah and my other half and his good friend...it all turned to disaster. Looks like me and my fiance have split up, and me and leah have also fallen out.
It all started with me talking to a guy I havent seen in YEARS. We went out for a month but then decided we are better off as friends, anyway, he was due to be married in July so I simply asked him how it went! My partner got stressed out simply because the guy and I had history. WTF.
Then later it gets more heated, he smashes the coffee table....GREAT JUST FUCKING GREAT. Im at the end of my tether, im lost, I cant afford this place on my own, and now he has left. Im not sure what to do. We have split up but I am the one who is picking up the pieces. I dont even know why we have. He said to me that Leah said that I was a hypocrite, so I brought that up with her and she simply stormed out my flat with all her stuff. I really could do with someone to talk to right now as I feel more alone than ever.
So if ANYONE is out there please please I really need advice or someone to talk to...
xx
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I am so sorry.
I know you don't know me but I have heard that I am a great listener ^_^
Hope things get better. Keep your head up.
*hugs*
One one hand, it may be one of those weird fights that stems from some other, deeper cause--maybe there was something bothering him that he didn't know how to bring up, and this was an excuse.
Devil's advocate view: If this guy has such a temper that he's willing to dump you (and smash furniture) over you talking to someone, well, it could be that in the long run you're better off.
You can't control anyone but yourself... try to be calm and mellow and examine what options you have. Sorry I can't be more help...