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Does it show me who tipped girls money? Good for them but how is that any of my business? I don’t care...and it’s not going to make me want to tip anymore than I want to now. What’s the purpose of that?

gadget:
There is something in your preferences so you can turn it off for people you follow, but if you cruise the everything tab, too bad for all of us. I know. We've all been wondering the same thing since last year.
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Has been doing a number on me lately. My sleep schedule is fucked because of it. Currently 4am and I work at 6am...gotta keep marching forward though. It sucks but I know it’ll stabilize. Hope you lovely folks have been doing alright ❤️❤️

gadget:
Mine's been brutal, and I'm to the point where I don't care if it stabilizes. I'm so tired.
korbendallas:
@gadget stay strong love, sending you positive vibes and all my love your way.
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Not sure why though. I’ve been a member of this site for 14 years now. So many people have come and gone, I’ve kept touch with a few who have become big parts of my life now. Haven’t really made many new friends though, I have mostly become a girl collector now. Following people I find attractive and commenting sets. You’re cute, you’re hot and...
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bookcouple:
I’m doing better, thanks!
babinix:
Sweet 💓
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😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️

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hurt at how accurate this applies to my life.

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bookcouple:
😢
wrencher:
Don’t be sad man! Stan lived a life that most can only dream to come close to!! Rejoice, give a salute and most important, remember
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I wasn’t born yesterday....fun is fun but I am not a damn fool. Anyways.

I’m feeling much better, had a rough week last week. Talking to my psychiatrist on the 13th of this month. We may be changing up my meds. May get on some ADD meds, me and focusing have not been getting along lately. So I finally went to cut my hair the...
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korbendallas:
@gadget her hand slipped and she shaved a good chunk of the mustache off so I told her to just trim it all the way down. I have always trimmed my own beard. She asked nicely though and I foolishly said yes haha
gadget:
Wow. She slipped? What's she gonna slip and take off next!? an ear lobe!?
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😷🤧🤒😭

Hope all you lovely people are doing well. ❤️

bookcouple:
Hope you feel better
ferkixlll:
A speedy recovery.
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Hope you all have been doing well. So recently I was put on a low dose antidepressant and it’s actually been working pretty well for me. A few months back I finally reached out to my best friend and things are great with us again. We had a bit of a falling out but I feel we are stronger than ever now. What happened between...
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korbendallas:
I know i’ll make mistakes @gadget , I mostly meant making that same mistake twice. I have seen the errors of my ways and now I have to react to my thoughts and actions before I react to a situation. I was always a victim in my head, now I realize that I can be quite the dramatic asshole as well. Lol.
gadget:
I know what you mean.It can be tricky because your ego has to take a backseat, while putting your emotional response on mute. Doing so should allow you to think logically while  listening to the other person. This will create greater understanding and perspective. After that you can remove the mute from your emotional response and have honest dialogue. That allows things to be much less dramatic. It's really important to stay calm and ask questions to gain greater clarity. It's kinda like a poker face. Don't reveal your true emotions until you're sure they're justified. I find doing this allows me to be less anxious and emotional because instead of 'what if's' and assumptions, I KNOW. It's the only way to not have that shit eat at you. I'm the absolute worst with that. Guilt will be the death of me. It's a big step man. I'm proud of you.
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Most tipping sites i’ve dealt with were free to join and the site made a commission off the tips. Pay to join and 20% off commissions seems like a total money grab.

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allybloom:
It's just odd people get mad about seeing a merely gift-box because yeah, I saw people comment. Like I said, I talk and I'm friends with people who didn't agree, there's nothing wrong, but they aren't making, like we say here in my country, "making a storm in a cup of water". Making it sound like a terrible thing that will change the whole world because let's be honest, having an option to tip is not changing anyone's life. One more time, no one is obligated to tip. There are a lot of people willing to tip, if you don't want just don't tip, easy. No one will be supervising you to check if you tip or not. But people are just ignoring the fact it's optional, to complain. Anyway, have a good day/night!!
korbendallas:
@allybloom you are missing the entire point. Anyways, I hope you have a fantastic day, and i’m Sorry if I offended or upset you in anyway. It was not my intention. Stay magical 🧙‍♀️