Now now now......
So it's been a couple of weeks since I posted and I have to admit, not done a great deal! Long live the holidays.
I went to visit my sister and had a nice time down where she lives. The saturday was beautiful and we went to the beach and to a few scenic places and then went for drinks on the night time. On the sunday we went sight seeing again and went for a meal. It was really nice to see her! It's times like this as I grow up I realise how close we are compared to when we lived together and times like this I realise I feel really old at the grand old age of 20!
There has been a lot of shit going on with people at uni again. Sometimes I think I would be better off sticking at performing arts, there was less drama there! What's happened is my housemate(Lets call her........ Xena) and her gf (umm, wonder woman......no that's me nobody can take my fave.......um Storm) go to Storms house to sort through her mail and look what bills there are. They find a notepad of paper and decide to read through it, in this notebook there are some written conversations from class referring Xena in particular, calling her stuff like a psychopath. These are notes written by Storms housemate (Errrrr Rhubarb) and another girl out of our group (custard).
SO BOYS AND GIRLS WHAT IS THE MOST MATURE WAY TO RESOLVE THIS?
would it be a conversation with the persons in trouble?
oh no can't be that.
Would it be....... waiting until everyones back from holidays to sort it face to face?
No, no, monsieur you have it all wrong.
WOULD IT BE, messaging everyone in our little group with snippets of the conversations in question? Yes, that would be it.
I recieve a message about what these two (rhubarb and custard have done) and I am far less shocked about what they have done than I am the whole message. I mean, come on? These people are supposed to be leaving uni as professionals for fuck sake. I mean yes I can understand Xena and Storm being pissed off but I can also see the other side, yes your gay, yes your in a relationship but I really could not give a shit. You do not have to leave 2 body boards, 2 buckets and 2 spades in the kitchen (in the KITCHEN, sanitary I hear you say?) because you two went to the beach TOGETHER. I DON'T CAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEE. What I do care about is the frigging germs as I am trying to prepare food. And what's ok for the goose should be ok for the gander? WRONG. I tidy up the kitchen and I do a bloody good job of it, bleach the works and I put everything away whilst doing this, saves moving shite around a wet surface, so the coffee (in skanky jars) I put in a cupboard. It looks so much tidier. I move this one little thing and then I get asked if we can put it back now? So I do. My other housemate (Mouse) makes a little thing to cheer me up while I'm away one day and its like a beack ball (clean) and stuff made into like a person with a pair of pjs I'd left in the house somewhere. I walk in the other day and this thing is dismantled, my pjs folded up and put on the side, (Xena did this). But I don't make a big deal out of these things. She is weird but so what? You get on with life.
If I found notes about myself to be honest, one I would be kinda proud that I've taken up someones thoughts for a part of the day to the point they have to talk about me. 2 I would confront THEM about it, nobody else. 3) I would take the moral high road and not beat them down with the same sort of language they used otherwise you are just sharing their plato at the end of the day.
But facebooking everyone the messages? Please kids, grow up. You are older than myself. If you are naive enough to believe that nobody has ever bitched about you behind your back then maybe you should just go home and grow up a bit. Also one of their male friends (Xena and Storms friend) then changed his status to something like "thinks they are a pair of backstabbing little shits", you know to just put the spoon in the broth a little deeper. This is the shit I am going back to when I move back to student digs. Hallelujah.
I dunno. Having a conversation with my nan a couple of days back really puts into perspective what really matters. You know the conversations you have that you have so much emotion about what your saying. Real life experiences. We were talking about something that happened to me when I was a kid and it just got me to thinking, why the fuck do I worry over trivial matters? Why not just worry about the things that really matter. There is no point in worrying about who does or doesn't like me this week or whether or not my skin is playing up. But am I able to put these things out of my mind? Some of them certainly not. Others I will try at. Sorry about that turning soppy but what you gonna do? You gotta play with the cards life deals you! xx
So it's been a couple of weeks since I posted and I have to admit, not done a great deal! Long live the holidays.
I went to visit my sister and had a nice time down where she lives. The saturday was beautiful and we went to the beach and to a few scenic places and then went for drinks on the night time. On the sunday we went sight seeing again and went for a meal. It was really nice to see her! It's times like this as I grow up I realise how close we are compared to when we lived together and times like this I realise I feel really old at the grand old age of 20!
There has been a lot of shit going on with people at uni again. Sometimes I think I would be better off sticking at performing arts, there was less drama there! What's happened is my housemate(Lets call her........ Xena) and her gf (umm, wonder woman......no that's me nobody can take my fave.......um Storm) go to Storms house to sort through her mail and look what bills there are. They find a notepad of paper and decide to read through it, in this notebook there are some written conversations from class referring Xena in particular, calling her stuff like a psychopath. These are notes written by Storms housemate (Errrrr Rhubarb) and another girl out of our group (custard).
SO BOYS AND GIRLS WHAT IS THE MOST MATURE WAY TO RESOLVE THIS?
would it be a conversation with the persons in trouble?
oh no can't be that.
Would it be....... waiting until everyones back from holidays to sort it face to face?
No, no, monsieur you have it all wrong.
WOULD IT BE, messaging everyone in our little group with snippets of the conversations in question? Yes, that would be it.
I recieve a message about what these two (rhubarb and custard have done) and I am far less shocked about what they have done than I am the whole message. I mean, come on? These people are supposed to be leaving uni as professionals for fuck sake. I mean yes I can understand Xena and Storm being pissed off but I can also see the other side, yes your gay, yes your in a relationship but I really could not give a shit. You do not have to leave 2 body boards, 2 buckets and 2 spades in the kitchen (in the KITCHEN, sanitary I hear you say?) because you two went to the beach TOGETHER. I DON'T CAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEE. What I do care about is the frigging germs as I am trying to prepare food. And what's ok for the goose should be ok for the gander? WRONG. I tidy up the kitchen and I do a bloody good job of it, bleach the works and I put everything away whilst doing this, saves moving shite around a wet surface, so the coffee (in skanky jars) I put in a cupboard. It looks so much tidier. I move this one little thing and then I get asked if we can put it back now? So I do. My other housemate (Mouse) makes a little thing to cheer me up while I'm away one day and its like a beack ball (clean) and stuff made into like a person with a pair of pjs I'd left in the house somewhere. I walk in the other day and this thing is dismantled, my pjs folded up and put on the side, (Xena did this). But I don't make a big deal out of these things. She is weird but so what? You get on with life.
If I found notes about myself to be honest, one I would be kinda proud that I've taken up someones thoughts for a part of the day to the point they have to talk about me. 2 I would confront THEM about it, nobody else. 3) I would take the moral high road and not beat them down with the same sort of language they used otherwise you are just sharing their plato at the end of the day.
But facebooking everyone the messages? Please kids, grow up. You are older than myself. If you are naive enough to believe that nobody has ever bitched about you behind your back then maybe you should just go home and grow up a bit. Also one of their male friends (Xena and Storms friend) then changed his status to something like "thinks they are a pair of backstabbing little shits", you know to just put the spoon in the broth a little deeper. This is the shit I am going back to when I move back to student digs. Hallelujah.
I dunno. Having a conversation with my nan a couple of days back really puts into perspective what really matters. You know the conversations you have that you have so much emotion about what your saying. Real life experiences. We were talking about something that happened to me when I was a kid and it just got me to thinking, why the fuck do I worry over trivial matters? Why not just worry about the things that really matter. There is no point in worrying about who does or doesn't like me this week or whether or not my skin is playing up. But am I able to put these things out of my mind? Some of them certainly not. Others I will try at. Sorry about that turning soppy but what you gonna do? You gotta play with the cards life deals you! xx
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Better luck next time you sit down to have a go at it.
My day was fairly cruisey, thanks. I spent the day in a tractor mowing ovals.
Good times, tunes all day plus I get paid.
i'm ok for now, just frustrated because i really need to be someplace else right now and that is not going to happen anytime soon or maybe even at all.
but well, sure thing about the add!
so how are you? anything special coming up for you?