Attraction! How do you know when someone is attracted to you? This used to be a question i used to ask myself growing up. And YES I still do from time to time. Only because i know the answer, even if I tell myself i don't. no matter how much you want to deny it you KNOW!
There's definitely no one thing that you can find to tell if someone is or not. Hundreds of ways. You can call them many things. Indicators of interest, tells, signs, physical, mental, or even just a look. I can always tell if someone is interested in someone else. My problem is i can never tell , at first, that someone is interested in me. Why? I don't know. I am good at reading people, even when lying.
Lets see what are these things... well touch is always a good one. nothing crazy. Just any simple touch, poke soft grab. This is one way of knowing there is interest there. Now that doesn't me you can just jump this person right there, in most cases. But it does show the person that hey you have my attention.
The look, catching eye contact, on more than two occasions in one night, especially in crowded rooms bars parties. Again just random coincidences that peak ones interest
Multiple small conversations about nothing, chance encounters, bumping into one another (unplanned) And a great way to start the conversation with an easy joke. "Are you stalking me?" or just silly banter
There are a lot of ways to tell another person indirectly that you are interested but only one way to continue. go talk to them. See if you can find out if they truly are what your looking for.
Its been a while since i been with a girl, over a year I don't know what I'm doing anymore. But i do know I'm not in the right spot in my life to be in a relationship. but that doesn't mean I'm not lonely. Ohh well at least i have my health, and a job. Things could always be worse.
Well these are just random thoughts in my head, i guess that what a blog is. I hope you have learned something and if not, teach me something let me know what you think.
There's definitely no one thing that you can find to tell if someone is or not. Hundreds of ways. You can call them many things. Indicators of interest, tells, signs, physical, mental, or even just a look. I can always tell if someone is interested in someone else. My problem is i can never tell , at first, that someone is interested in me. Why? I don't know. I am good at reading people, even when lying.
Lets see what are these things... well touch is always a good one. nothing crazy. Just any simple touch, poke soft grab. This is one way of knowing there is interest there. Now that doesn't me you can just jump this person right there, in most cases. But it does show the person that hey you have my attention.
The look, catching eye contact, on more than two occasions in one night, especially in crowded rooms bars parties. Again just random coincidences that peak ones interest
Multiple small conversations about nothing, chance encounters, bumping into one another (unplanned) And a great way to start the conversation with an easy joke. "Are you stalking me?" or just silly banter
There are a lot of ways to tell another person indirectly that you are interested but only one way to continue. go talk to them. See if you can find out if they truly are what your looking for.
Its been a while since i been with a girl, over a year I don't know what I'm doing anymore. But i do know I'm not in the right spot in my life to be in a relationship. but that doesn't mean I'm not lonely. Ohh well at least i have my health, and a job. Things could always be worse.
Well these are just random thoughts in my head, i guess that what a blog is. I hope you have learned something and if not, teach me something let me know what you think.