klu

i always get down when i am around someone for a long time, i dont know why it is. Maybe because i know that they will lose intrest, like everyone before them.
maybe it is self fufilling prophecy. maybe i try to hard when i start to feel like i am losin someones interest. how do i go to the next step with a person? should i risk embarrasement and just ask her out?
i really need to get a book about dating.
where does confidence come from?
i am confident at work, there is a simple formula for success, stick with that and success will follow. but in the romance side i have nothing to be confident about. i dont know the steps for success.