it was no surprise when she brought it up; it had been on my mind.
it was no coincidence. i've been wondering the same thing.
Lupita went and met her parents in Capitol City last weekend to look at houses.
her dad has decided that it would be a good idea to buy a place there, being that it would reduce her teacher-schedule commute by a half an hour or more. she's finding it difficult to turn down an offer for a bunch of money from the bank of dad.
i have always had the same trouble with the bank of mom.
he has her looking at duplexes and townhouses.
this is the opposite of my philosophy on buying real estate.
when i buy a place, it'll be a place where i can be sometimes painfully alone. and excruciatingly loud.
"if(when) i move, are we going to continue this? i mean, i enjoy our time together..."
i don't know. i've been wondering the same thing.
i never seem to know how attached i am until we've separated. then i know.
she's waiting until she knows whether she has a job next year--there are a lot of cutbacks at the tiny country school where she teaches.
either way, i'm pretty sure i have exactly one more year here, then i plan on moving a lot farther than capitol city. as elrod put it correctly, "capitol city? that would be a lot closer to the opposite of where you want to be." granted, it's only 50 miles or so from here, but i've seen 50 miles pound the coffin nails on a relationship before.
ours is a strange one to define. Sternberg would probably describe us as exhibiting companionate love with the feature of momentary passion; we're intimate and committed like a pair of serial monogamists, but outside of the naked time, i wouldn't say there's a lot of passion.
i don't know how the other side of the coin looks, but she's told me that she's never made a connection with anyone that was strong enough to compel her to keep in touch when they became distant.
i think it's sad, but i don't feel it, mostly because it's the opposite of me and i can't empathize, only daydream about how sad i'd be if i had absolutely no one.
i've been working on my own world wide web, and i love everyone who has stepped into it. i'm not used to seeing anyone disappear, but it happens and the world doesn't end because of it.
but i won't speculate(put my predictions in writing) just yet.
it was no coincidence. i've been wondering the same thing.
Lupita went and met her parents in Capitol City last weekend to look at houses.
her dad has decided that it would be a good idea to buy a place there, being that it would reduce her teacher-schedule commute by a half an hour or more. she's finding it difficult to turn down an offer for a bunch of money from the bank of dad.
i have always had the same trouble with the bank of mom.
he has her looking at duplexes and townhouses.
this is the opposite of my philosophy on buying real estate.
when i buy a place, it'll be a place where i can be sometimes painfully alone. and excruciatingly loud.
"if(when) i move, are we going to continue this? i mean, i enjoy our time together..."
i don't know. i've been wondering the same thing.
i never seem to know how attached i am until we've separated. then i know.
she's waiting until she knows whether she has a job next year--there are a lot of cutbacks at the tiny country school where she teaches.
either way, i'm pretty sure i have exactly one more year here, then i plan on moving a lot farther than capitol city. as elrod put it correctly, "capitol city? that would be a lot closer to the opposite of where you want to be." granted, it's only 50 miles or so from here, but i've seen 50 miles pound the coffin nails on a relationship before.
ours is a strange one to define. Sternberg would probably describe us as exhibiting companionate love with the feature of momentary passion; we're intimate and committed like a pair of serial monogamists, but outside of the naked time, i wouldn't say there's a lot of passion.
i don't know how the other side of the coin looks, but she's told me that she's never made a connection with anyone that was strong enough to compel her to keep in touch when they became distant.
i think it's sad, but i don't feel it, mostly because it's the opposite of me and i can't empathize, only daydream about how sad i'd be if i had absolutely no one.
i've been working on my own world wide web, and i love everyone who has stepped into it. i'm not used to seeing anyone disappear, but it happens and the world doesn't end because of it.
but i won't speculate(put my predictions in writing) just yet.