i slept in a really comfortable bed last nite. i slept next to someone i never thought i'd sleep next to. it was cool and comfortable. it was just sleep. exhausted we both were. and he said i could crash at his house after the gossip show. and (at this time) his apartment has no couch or those bean bags, just a hard cold wood floor...and an awesome bed in his bedroom. so he didn't have much to offer and he said something like, "or you could sleep in my bed, if you don't feel weird about that." and i said something like, "why is it that weird?" and then sarcastically said, "because yr a boy and i'm a girl?" i don't know how many times people think they know "what's up" cuz i'm sleeping in the same bed as the opposite sex. wow, how rich i'd be in boyfriends if every boy i've slept next to ended up being my lover/s. people are so fucking lazy and unimaginative. when i sleep with another female, there's no big conniption about it. when 2 male buddies sleep together, they get smirks. when females sleep with their male buddies, they get smirks. people need to wake up. literally. preferably next to a friend that'll make lame people smirk at you.
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that has happened once, I admit. but when I step into a friend's bed, I'm not thinking anything but sleep sleep sleep.
I have a (male) friend who is scared shitless to let anyone know he cuddled with one of my (female) friends. i guess cuddling is so very very wrong if you are dating someone else...anyway, that's a whole 'nother story.