kiss_kiss_luxury

so one of my best friends has been dating this old married guy for 2 years now. this has caused all kinds of problems between her and I because i hate this asshole and he knows it and shes stuck having to chose between us. and she chose him a few times, which of course pissed me off because im only looking out for her. and i know she knows that, and i understand where she is and why she does what she does, but i hate watching her get hurt over and over.

so a few months ago he writes her a letter basically telling her hes not going to see her anymore. 2 days before this hes telling her hes going to get a divorce yeah sure. so she was devistated for weeks. then she starts seeing him again but didnt tell me. i had a feeling she was, just because she started acting suspisious. but she eventually told me. she said she didnt want to tell me because she knew she was making a mistake and didnt want me to think she was stupid. i told her i understood, and knew it was hard to leave someone she liked so much. and then like 2 weeks later he texts her telling her he doesnt want to see her anymore. AGAIN. and yet again she tells me she started seeing him again.

this guy is such a waste of her life. and the worst part is she knows it, but cant stop seeing him. it kills me. why wouldnt he like her? hes married and 37, he goes home to his wifey and has a home life, then when shes not around he goes to his 22 year old and gets laid and drinks and has fun. how is this bad for him in any way? i know if she just met another guy she would leave this loser. i just wish she could leave him without needing another guy. but im not going to critisize her, ive done the same thing (just recently) and i knew he was using me and an asshole, but i didnt leave. when we went out the other day she met some guy, i hope hes not an asshole, but that is such a small probability.