Well hello there SG world. It's been quite some time since I've really done something SG related, such as a blog, despite things coming about in life...that most would feel obligated to write about. Sorry I've been gone so long. I missed you guys, haha.
But anyway, I wanted to ask a question, after going over the scenario pulled from my own life over these passed few months where I haven't blogged. Its not above the norm. I was in love, we'd both done each other wrong in more ways than one over the time we were together. I helped her fight her habits that dragged her down, but some die harder than others. But there comes a time where things have to end, and that time came the sunday before our anniversary.
Haha, I always fall just short of the year mark. She wanted to be some sort of friends and become good friends with the passing of time...but I didn't see her as being a friend to me and when I let her know that it wasn't what she was being after some weeks, she suddenly decides that she's willing to be. However, one thing she said stuck with me, which was "We're not even close anymore"...which she said she wanted to be, and I tried hard despite everything to be her friend.
Right now is a crucial part in my life I would say...one chapter of my life, in more ways than one, is closing this year. So I was too fed up for that now. I said it would be best if we just didn't talk...as the only friends I hold close to me now aren't Hi-Bye friends...they're my close friends that I can talk to honestly. I burned the bridge I shared with her and decided to just move on with live, closing this chapter of my life completely after this year.
My question now...is what you all might think...about burning bridges with people. Necessary part of life or can it be avoided, etc.? I want to know what insight your experience on this planet has given you on dealing with that sort of thing, if it's not too much to ask.
For reading this, thank you...I appreciate it, and I would appreciate your feedback that much more
-Kiryu/Keith
P.S:...my godbrother is the man for bringing this up from the Bronx to good ol' Connecticut for me
But anyway, I wanted to ask a question, after going over the scenario pulled from my own life over these passed few months where I haven't blogged. Its not above the norm. I was in love, we'd both done each other wrong in more ways than one over the time we were together. I helped her fight her habits that dragged her down, but some die harder than others. But there comes a time where things have to end, and that time came the sunday before our anniversary.
Haha, I always fall just short of the year mark. She wanted to be some sort of friends and become good friends with the passing of time...but I didn't see her as being a friend to me and when I let her know that it wasn't what she was being after some weeks, she suddenly decides that she's willing to be. However, one thing she said stuck with me, which was "We're not even close anymore"...which she said she wanted to be, and I tried hard despite everything to be her friend.
Right now is a crucial part in my life I would say...one chapter of my life, in more ways than one, is closing this year. So I was too fed up for that now. I said it would be best if we just didn't talk...as the only friends I hold close to me now aren't Hi-Bye friends...they're my close friends that I can talk to honestly. I burned the bridge I shared with her and decided to just move on with live, closing this chapter of my life completely after this year.
My question now...is what you all might think...about burning bridges with people. Necessary part of life or can it be avoided, etc.? I want to know what insight your experience on this planet has given you on dealing with that sort of thing, if it's not too much to ask.
For reading this, thank you...I appreciate it, and I would appreciate your feedback that much more
-Kiryu/Keith
P.S:...my godbrother is the man for bringing this up from the Bronx to good ol' Connecticut for me
lashes:
Right now, I could do with knowing the answer to this too..
fatality:
Oh, haha, thanks! Good to see someone else in CT. Take care