Alright, I know that you guys are concerned and curious as to how things went, so here goes.
It went terrible, I lost her (the judge said her mom could move to Canada), got arrested for contempt of court (for speaking my mind after the judgment), and spent the rest of the day feeling like a real loser, with the images of my daughter crying about the outcome. I was totally heartbroken over the situation, and then I remembered who I am and how many people are wishing me well
I am not some powerless smock that can be steamrolled by an adulteress and her bitch boyfriend. I am the fucking mighty, MIGHTY, King of Skulls. Ha....Fuck authority, fuck sitting idly by watching the light of my life being taken away, and fuck not using every resource at my disposal to remedy the situation.
Now, 10-15 years ago, it would have been solved by an outrageous act of violence and a lot of pain on their part, but I am a kinder, gentler King of Skulls. So instead, I sold of 2 of my motorcycles (would rather spend my days coloring and hanging out on the monkey bars with the kid), cashed in my Roth fund, called up the attorney and had him submit the paperwork to get a court order to stop the move. I gave my attorney the money and a list of people to subpoena for the next hearing. I got together every photo and videotape of me and Sierra I have that shows me doing everything from teaching her how to swim to calming her down after her mom left. I had the lawyer get both her mom and the ass that she is seeing criminal records for the courts viewing pleasure. I had him get mine and my service records for comparison. The gloves have officially come off, I cant afford to fight nice and believe that being fair is going to get me joint custody. I tried that, and it nearly caused me to lose my kid. I am not fighting for full custody, I dont want to take sierra away from her mom, I just want joint custody, and to be able to see my ked 3-4 days/nights a week. Thats all.
Ok, thats been said, now I want to thank all of my friends and the kind strangers that have been so wonderful and caring thru this, it means a lot to me and it wont be forgotten at all. I love you all for the support and well wishes. Buddha, sorry about tonight, my head feels like some drunk is driving a tractor in it, I will make it up to you, I promise. And to the source of many butterflies, thank you for being a sounding board for all my woes, I adore you.
Peace to all of you and yours, and remember, I got your back forever.
It went terrible, I lost her (the judge said her mom could move to Canada), got arrested for contempt of court (for speaking my mind after the judgment), and spent the rest of the day feeling like a real loser, with the images of my daughter crying about the outcome. I was totally heartbroken over the situation, and then I remembered who I am and how many people are wishing me well
I am not some powerless smock that can be steamrolled by an adulteress and her bitch boyfriend. I am the fucking mighty, MIGHTY, King of Skulls. Ha....Fuck authority, fuck sitting idly by watching the light of my life being taken away, and fuck not using every resource at my disposal to remedy the situation.
Now, 10-15 years ago, it would have been solved by an outrageous act of violence and a lot of pain on their part, but I am a kinder, gentler King of Skulls. So instead, I sold of 2 of my motorcycles (would rather spend my days coloring and hanging out on the monkey bars with the kid), cashed in my Roth fund, called up the attorney and had him submit the paperwork to get a court order to stop the move. I gave my attorney the money and a list of people to subpoena for the next hearing. I got together every photo and videotape of me and Sierra I have that shows me doing everything from teaching her how to swim to calming her down after her mom left. I had the lawyer get both her mom and the ass that she is seeing criminal records for the courts viewing pleasure. I had him get mine and my service records for comparison. The gloves have officially come off, I cant afford to fight nice and believe that being fair is going to get me joint custody. I tried that, and it nearly caused me to lose my kid. I am not fighting for full custody, I dont want to take sierra away from her mom, I just want joint custody, and to be able to see my ked 3-4 days/nights a week. Thats all.
Ok, thats been said, now I want to thank all of my friends and the kind strangers that have been so wonderful and caring thru this, it means a lot to me and it wont be forgotten at all. I love you all for the support and well wishes. Buddha, sorry about tonight, my head feels like some drunk is driving a tractor in it, I will make it up to you, I promise. And to the source of many butterflies, thank you for being a sounding board for all my woes, I adore you.
Peace to all of you and yours, and remember, I got your back forever.
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smuffy:
Awww sweetie I was going to thank you for being hero of the day for lettibg me know what you think of that loser...but I just read your journal entry. I'm so sorry you lost your daughter(temporarily). It sounds like you're doing all the right things in order to get your little girl back. I hope that it all works out well for you. Please keep us all updated and let us know what's happening. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!!! *hearts*
dharmabox:
I am seriously going to ad great resale value to my resume! That is classic maybe I won't end up in the cut out bin after all!!! 