If it's only about you or just a show for others... it's not love. Love is being fully for another, without expectation or jealousy or anger. It is not a distraction while you decide your direction... It is both the decision and direction.
midnight:
Beautiful
kguy2k:
Thank you. I think we've forgotten the best parts of love... the caring little things. Holding hands, playful roughhousing, a caress or gentle touch, the note you leave to let them know you're thinking of them when you can't be together, a sweet kiss... now people meet as strangers, expecting everything, only to have it mean nothing.People only care about themselves these days, they get into relationships like a line at a fast food place... if it takes too long or they don't get what they want right away, they're just gone. Nobody gets into relationships and marriage with the future in mind, they are always looking for something better or for everything to be easy. When you see people together for 25 or 30 yrs, it's not because it was easy every day... but when it wasn't, they both rolled up their sleeve and did the work. They talk and listen, they argue and forgive, they remember and don't give up.