**********don't be cock sleeves and cum dumpsters**********
women of the world, i plead to you, where has our dignity gone?
being a woman who has dealt with overwhelming penis envy and in general a stronger relation to men when it comes to my identity, i've spent the majority of time in the company of men. anything you can possibly fathom and i mean ANYTHING, i've heard from the mouths of these wolves. now, don't get me wrong...women can be a bit sketchy, but honestly, when i think of how desperate and lonely so many of them are and needlessly, it makes me sick. this is insane ladies. what's worst is that most of them that are spoken for are with complete d-bags. why? how? when? are you all seriously that pathetic?!
i guess i am beside myself on this issue. on one hand i am a hardcore femininist. with will there is strength to do all things...gender aside. on the other, men are so simple. there's no drama or miscommunication. often with most of them, what you see IS what you get. but can someone please tell me why are women still oppressing themselves?
no, i don't think there's weakness in longing for companionship. women are not wrong for being lustful or flat out horny, but why lower your standards? the only way i can put it is to say sex does NOT happen unless the woman gives it a green. otherwise, it's rape. i don't give a shit how messy, lazy, unkept, desperate, freaky, strange, aggressive, pathetic, out of shape, or ugly a woman can be...there are a line of men who will have sex with you. when you're a man, it's just not the same. heterosexual men will always seek pussy. hands down and there's no reason why as women we should settle for the first dumbass that comes along. finding a man who will date or fuck you isn't hard work, but i see it happening everyday. women chasing after and obsessing over getting the 'one'.
1. first off, a real man will always pursue you. he won't be afraid to express how he feels and if he gives any kind of a damn it'll be more than how badly he wants to bone you. (that's obvious) real men will put themselves out there and take a chance. there's nothing wrong with letting someone know you want them as well, but don't be crazy and aggressive about it. there's no need. you should be desired.
2. any guy that makes you feel like you are lucky to have him is an ass. it's the other way around honey. YOU could have anyone you wanted, but you chose him. in the same regards, don't act like you're the best thing that ever happened to the guy. we are all equal and unique in our own ways.
3. if you constantly have to ask the guy to help you out and i mean with the same things...don't nag the dumbass, leave him! it's not rocket science. now granted men don't think like women. they won't necessarily understand why the shirt that's been on the floor for days needs to be washed, but if you explain or have asked kindly to please help with chores or responsibilities and he still has a hearing problem then he's an ungrateful ass. you are no one's servant/house maid.
4. everyone has something their into. i see so many girls going out of there way to like or do what the guy is into so they will "look cool" or win points with him. if you are a woman willing to go that far, then fine, but if the guy doesn't even know what your hobbies are or doesn't even show an interest then he doesn't care about you personally. don't be a fucking puppet. he doesn't have to like what you're into, but he should atleast nuture or be aware of it.
5. a man who respects you won't ask you to do things you're not comfortable with. everyone has some sort of freaky thing that rocks their socks, but that doesn't mean you'll share the same enthusiasm. now we as women don't have to be prudes, but don't agree to something that just freaks you out or scares you. find a compromise and be honest. sometimes that means being open to new things, but never doing something that'll make you feel less about yourself.
6. if he has a history don't be such an arrogant ass that you think you can change him. people for the most part do not change. all it takes is the right circumstances and if they'll do it once, they CAN do it again. people deserve second chances and sometimes mistakes are made, but if the guy is a repeat offender for being unfaithful or violent, then you're wasting your time and effort. that's what meds, professional help, and jail is for.
7. have a voice!! speak up for yourself. if you aren't getting what you need or want from the relationship then talk about it. keeping quiet, telling yourself it's enough, or that you deserve whatever you're getting is the wrong attitude. in the same regards, don't assume the guy has a clue. men talk shit out. they put it out there, so you should do the same.
8. a man will wait. sex is going to happen. if there's a real connection it won't go away or wear off because you didn't hook up right away. you shouldn't have to fuck a guy to keep him around. if you're worth it to him and he really wants you, he'll stick around for the reward. he won't hound you for it either, but let you know that he's totally ready whenever you are. ;p
9. if he really cares about you he won't become bored or tired of you. there's a trend in relationships and especially marriages where after you've spent a lot of time together you start to care less. this doesn't have to and shouldn't happen. love and lust doesn't have an expiration date. guys are simple. if you're his he thinks you are the most beautiful girl in the world. honestly, most men just want to feel wanted and needed. it doesn't take much. it's okay to get dolled up just for him, make him is favorite snack/meal, wear something a little sexy, or do that really dirty thing you used to when you first started dating. don't act like just because you got him all the work is done. he should also being willing to do the same thing for you and often.
10. a man will take care of you. there should definitely be work on both sides, but if he doesn't have an innate desire to provide, help out, or be there for you to lean on..he ain't worth a damn. this is more than just in a financial sense, but if he's still living off of or with someone then he isn't ready for a relationship(neither are you). if he can't take care of himself then he won't and can't take care of you.
i honestly, don't know what else i can say. be strong, smart, beautiful, and sure of yourself. take pride in who you are and know that it is worthy of a man and not a boy. don't be so critical of yourselves either and if there's things about yourself you don't like work to improve them and not use them as a crutch. you'll end up settling every time if you're not sure of who you are or what you want.
women we have power in the ownership of our nether regions, so don't be douches.
women of the world, i plead to you, where has our dignity gone?
being a woman who has dealt with overwhelming penis envy and in general a stronger relation to men when it comes to my identity, i've spent the majority of time in the company of men. anything you can possibly fathom and i mean ANYTHING, i've heard from the mouths of these wolves. now, don't get me wrong...women can be a bit sketchy, but honestly, when i think of how desperate and lonely so many of them are and needlessly, it makes me sick. this is insane ladies. what's worst is that most of them that are spoken for are with complete d-bags. why? how? when? are you all seriously that pathetic?!
i guess i am beside myself on this issue. on one hand i am a hardcore femininist. with will there is strength to do all things...gender aside. on the other, men are so simple. there's no drama or miscommunication. often with most of them, what you see IS what you get. but can someone please tell me why are women still oppressing themselves?
no, i don't think there's weakness in longing for companionship. women are not wrong for being lustful or flat out horny, but why lower your standards? the only way i can put it is to say sex does NOT happen unless the woman gives it a green. otherwise, it's rape. i don't give a shit how messy, lazy, unkept, desperate, freaky, strange, aggressive, pathetic, out of shape, or ugly a woman can be...there are a line of men who will have sex with you. when you're a man, it's just not the same. heterosexual men will always seek pussy. hands down and there's no reason why as women we should settle for the first dumbass that comes along. finding a man who will date or fuck you isn't hard work, but i see it happening everyday. women chasing after and obsessing over getting the 'one'.
1. first off, a real man will always pursue you. he won't be afraid to express how he feels and if he gives any kind of a damn it'll be more than how badly he wants to bone you. (that's obvious) real men will put themselves out there and take a chance. there's nothing wrong with letting someone know you want them as well, but don't be crazy and aggressive about it. there's no need. you should be desired.
2. any guy that makes you feel like you are lucky to have him is an ass. it's the other way around honey. YOU could have anyone you wanted, but you chose him. in the same regards, don't act like you're the best thing that ever happened to the guy. we are all equal and unique in our own ways.
3. if you constantly have to ask the guy to help you out and i mean with the same things...don't nag the dumbass, leave him! it's not rocket science. now granted men don't think like women. they won't necessarily understand why the shirt that's been on the floor for days needs to be washed, but if you explain or have asked kindly to please help with chores or responsibilities and he still has a hearing problem then he's an ungrateful ass. you are no one's servant/house maid.
4. everyone has something their into. i see so many girls going out of there way to like or do what the guy is into so they will "look cool" or win points with him. if you are a woman willing to go that far, then fine, but if the guy doesn't even know what your hobbies are or doesn't even show an interest then he doesn't care about you personally. don't be a fucking puppet. he doesn't have to like what you're into, but he should atleast nuture or be aware of it.
5. a man who respects you won't ask you to do things you're not comfortable with. everyone has some sort of freaky thing that rocks their socks, but that doesn't mean you'll share the same enthusiasm. now we as women don't have to be prudes, but don't agree to something that just freaks you out or scares you. find a compromise and be honest. sometimes that means being open to new things, but never doing something that'll make you feel less about yourself.
6. if he has a history don't be such an arrogant ass that you think you can change him. people for the most part do not change. all it takes is the right circumstances and if they'll do it once, they CAN do it again. people deserve second chances and sometimes mistakes are made, but if the guy is a repeat offender for being unfaithful or violent, then you're wasting your time and effort. that's what meds, professional help, and jail is for.
7. have a voice!! speak up for yourself. if you aren't getting what you need or want from the relationship then talk about it. keeping quiet, telling yourself it's enough, or that you deserve whatever you're getting is the wrong attitude. in the same regards, don't assume the guy has a clue. men talk shit out. they put it out there, so you should do the same.
8. a man will wait. sex is going to happen. if there's a real connection it won't go away or wear off because you didn't hook up right away. you shouldn't have to fuck a guy to keep him around. if you're worth it to him and he really wants you, he'll stick around for the reward. he won't hound you for it either, but let you know that he's totally ready whenever you are. ;p
9. if he really cares about you he won't become bored or tired of you. there's a trend in relationships and especially marriages where after you've spent a lot of time together you start to care less. this doesn't have to and shouldn't happen. love and lust doesn't have an expiration date. guys are simple. if you're his he thinks you are the most beautiful girl in the world. honestly, most men just want to feel wanted and needed. it doesn't take much. it's okay to get dolled up just for him, make him is favorite snack/meal, wear something a little sexy, or do that really dirty thing you used to when you first started dating. don't act like just because you got him all the work is done. he should also being willing to do the same thing for you and often.
10. a man will take care of you. there should definitely be work on both sides, but if he doesn't have an innate desire to provide, help out, or be there for you to lean on..he ain't worth a damn. this is more than just in a financial sense, but if he's still living off of or with someone then he isn't ready for a relationship(neither are you). if he can't take care of himself then he won't and can't take care of you.
i honestly, don't know what else i can say. be strong, smart, beautiful, and sure of yourself. take pride in who you are and know that it is worthy of a man and not a boy. don't be so critical of yourselves either and if there's things about yourself you don't like work to improve them and not use them as a crutch. you'll end up settling every time if you're not sure of who you are or what you want.
women we have power in the ownership of our nether regions, so don't be douches.
VIEW 6 of 6 COMMENTS
nerdimusrex:
Speaking from experience, you have hit #9 right on the head. Very good advice and reading.
kewkyd:
the whole blog is based on my personal experiences...i used to be quite retarded.