Edit: I wonder whats up with all the SG attention, all of a sudden?
I do think that perhaps, you should really read what I'm trying to say before you jump down my throat about how I'm being 'mean and insulting'. I'll first point out that, in this journal posting and the comments below, I explain that she manuvers her mouth in a way that I find unnatural -- I believe by the pictures I have seen, the girl is beautiful...I think what she ended up posing with did NOT accentuate her natural beauty. I also don't think that standing around is particularly interesting, and from what I've gathered speaking from other members in my one-month travels here at SG, they don't either. And thats all I'm saying about that.
I've been running a cam site for the last three years. I do think I understand quite a bit about exposing parts of your life and flesh on this crazy WWW. I've recieved compliments, critiques, and quite a few negative responses to things I write (much like now), and over my pictures. When you choose to expose yourself in any way, you -will- undoubtedly, get these things. I never cried over this.
Additionally, I feel that from reading the girls' journal, if I were to contact her directly and tell her what I thought of the set, she'd have the confidence enough to hear it out and toss it aside if my suggesstions were something she did not want to do, or if (and this is merely a how I am) blatent honesty were too much for her. I think that you are -not- giving this girl enough credit.
I regard all of the SG's as people to be respected, and what I gathered from being here a month and talking to the people I've talked to, to be open and honest with themselves...or to be strong enough to take actual critisism. I think that you have a lot of guts to get out there and be naked for this site. But much like all choices, there are always drawbacks. It may come as a shocker, but some of you have (oh my god) flaws, and people might (holy shit) notice them.
In conclusion, I don't think I'm an evil person if I don't worship every one of the members or SG's for the unique flower they percieve themselves to be. I find it very...egotistical of you, to assume that I should.
Another Edit: I have deleted anything that could be percieved as a negative comment, because established members of your community have informed me that nobody 'gets away' with honesty here. I plan on filling this journal with my daily, real-life crap, and will refrain from commenting on any sets from now on. I leave the edit I made earlier in tact, to explain myself. Needless to say, I'm quite disapointed that the community is not what it was advertised to be.
If you want to see what was originally said, you may contact me privatly. I saved it.
I do think that perhaps, you should really read what I'm trying to say before you jump down my throat about how I'm being 'mean and insulting'. I'll first point out that, in this journal posting and the comments below, I explain that she manuvers her mouth in a way that I find unnatural -- I believe by the pictures I have seen, the girl is beautiful...I think what she ended up posing with did NOT accentuate her natural beauty. I also don't think that standing around is particularly interesting, and from what I've gathered speaking from other members in my one-month travels here at SG, they don't either. And thats all I'm saying about that.
I've been running a cam site for the last three years. I do think I understand quite a bit about exposing parts of your life and flesh on this crazy WWW. I've recieved compliments, critiques, and quite a few negative responses to things I write (much like now), and over my pictures. When you choose to expose yourself in any way, you -will- undoubtedly, get these things. I never cried over this.
Additionally, I feel that from reading the girls' journal, if I were to contact her directly and tell her what I thought of the set, she'd have the confidence enough to hear it out and toss it aside if my suggesstions were something she did not want to do, or if (and this is merely a how I am) blatent honesty were too much for her. I think that you are -not- giving this girl enough credit.
I regard all of the SG's as people to be respected, and what I gathered from being here a month and talking to the people I've talked to, to be open and honest with themselves...or to be strong enough to take actual critisism. I think that you have a lot of guts to get out there and be naked for this site. But much like all choices, there are always drawbacks. It may come as a shocker, but some of you have (oh my god) flaws, and people might (holy shit) notice them.
In conclusion, I don't think I'm an evil person if I don't worship every one of the members or SG's for the unique flower they percieve themselves to be. I find it very...egotistical of you, to assume that I should.
Another Edit: I have deleted anything that could be percieved as a negative comment, because established members of your community have informed me that nobody 'gets away' with honesty here. I plan on filling this journal with my daily, real-life crap, and will refrain from commenting on any sets from now on. I leave the edit I made earlier in tact, to explain myself. Needless to say, I'm quite disapointed that the community is not what it was advertised to be.
If you want to see what was originally said, you may contact me privatly. I saved it.
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I'm tactless, I know. And I took it down, because after looking at it, it really -was- tactless. But I noticed some of the people posting the link to my journal in the main boards were doing so -only- to be attention-seeking drama whores IMHO. Especially the one attention-seeking-drama-whore who called me a -skank- in her journal. If I'm getting so beaten-down by speaking my mind (and yet, while doing so, not resulting to name-calling), then arn't their rules about blatent harassment such as that?
Not that I'm going to bring it to any admins' attention, however.
[Edited on Sep 27, 2003]