A lithosexual might feel sexual attraction to someone, but doesn't want that feeling reciprocated, and if it is reciprocated they have a good chance of losing that sexual attraction to that person. It might be out of discomfort at the thought of being perceived as '"sexy", or it could simply be an unknowable factor, but whatever the case, a lithosexual is most likely not going...
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(Author's Note: I'm demisexual, so this is almost certain to be the longest of these. I'm sorry or you're welcome in advance.)
So let's say you meet someone. They seem nice, you want to hang out with them, they share your interests, but they're a friend, not anything else. And then one day you look at them and realize you feel . ....
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Picture this: you see this person across the room. You've never met them, you don't know who they are, and they are sexy as all hell. You decide to talk them up, you get to know them, things get interesting and then . . . nothing. All of a sudden you know them really well, but that attraction you felt is stone cold gone. And...
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So, within the community of ace folks, terms evolved that became known as sex stances; sex favorable, sex indifferent, sex averse, and sex repulsed. Note, these are different from sex positive or sex negative, and if you want to know more I wrote about them here. The main important ones for these two microlabels are sex repulsed and sex favorable. Apothisexual is considered another,...
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So, for a lot of these asexual labels, much like any sexuality label, they're some combo of words; demi- means "half" or "partial", fray- means "unraveled or worn", cupio- roughly means "I want" or "I desire". Well, Aego is two in one. A- means "without" and ego- means "I" or "myself". Taken literally, it's sexuality without the self.
So, some trademarks of aegosexuality are: being...
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Aceflux is an identity within the asexual umbrella; aceflux people's sexuality fluctuates, and that fluctuation is generally all or almost all within the asexual spectrum. But what does that mean? Well, my previous blog noted, there's several micro-labels and labels that exist under the asexual umbrella, and an aceflux person might be asexual (the sexuality, not the umbrella term, yes it's a tad confusing...
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Back in August of last year, I made 3 blog posts. One was about asexuality, one was about aromanticism, and one was about sex stances. For a very brief recap of those, asexuality is not feeling much or any amount of sexual attraction, aromantic folks are similar but with romantic attraction, and sex stances are your general personal attitudes about sex usually...
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I currently have fragments of "Johnny I Hardly Knew Ya", "Angel of the Morning", and "Motteke! Sailor Fuku!" (the opening song for the anime Lucky Star from the English dub specifically) all jumbled about in my head for no good reason, with the tune of the first stage of Super Mario Bros 2 wending its way through my mind. Why? Why is music...
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And then my current free membership will be up. I'll be back, the site's honestly a lot of fun, but I'll be waiting for a sale because money is tight for everyone these days so yeah. I thank anyone and everyone here who has been so kind and welcoming. You're why I'll be coming back. I mean, the art nude sets of photos are certainly...
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Simply put, there's more to wanting sex than just "yes" or "no". Sometimes that yes is a yes but not for yourself, sometimes that no is so intensely no for good reason. So, let's do this, get right in. There's a set of four terms, sex-favorable, sex-indifferent, sex-averse, and sex-repulsed, that I felt deserve their own blog post. Because these can be you even if...
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