Crap, so much has happened in the last few days that i'm just numb. I'm so tired right now.... My sister, my god I never understood some of her thoughts and her reasons but this one tops them all. I never thought she'd choose her husband over her children. 3 kids, 3 and she decides that she'd rather want to be with him. What makes it worse was he's been cheating on her, with some kid who just turned 18. After all that she still chooses him over them.
I never thought she'd be so spineless, but she is. She just handed them off to someone that we don't trust and cps doesn't trust and they let them hold onto the kids. I'm just....speechless. She had no real reason to hand them off to his step mom and dad to begin with besides "He was freaking out!" That's all her husband does, is freak out, beat on her, yell at his kids, drinks and cheats on my sister. How can she live with this I don't know but i'm tired of it.
I'm starting to think that it might be weird to see a girl before she's 20 to have 2 children. Idk I'm going to try to take in my nephew and my niece...My final nephew though, it's too late for him they handed him off to my aunt. Who's foolishly and surprisingly brainwashed him against us. But they'll have there's.
So this is really whats happening. My grandma is dying, which in all honesty I don't care about. My nephews had to go to court to rule about having trials and previous paperwork dismissed. Which it wasn't. My sister's husband cheats on her with an just recently turned 18 year old. My sisters husband wants a divorce but she's not letting him. He leaves goes and gets the girl he's been sleeping with and decides to have some quiet time with her on a mountain. Now supposedly he got into a wreck, rolled his truck and was suffering from a concussion and was bleeding profusely. Which was a lie to get people up there and to get search and rescue moving too. Within an hour of getting search and rescue they find him and the girl he was sleeping with. But he doesn't have any of the injuries that he said he had in the first place. Hell his truck didn't even roll over.
So my sister (as foolish as she is) may have gotten into a fight with her husband which resulted in her getting her nose broken, her face bruised and most likely kicked in the legs and stomach when she was on the ground. Now in defense of his older brother my quote on quote 'brother in law' said "They fight all the time." In which my mom yelled, "I don't think Jail did a damn thing for you." Now in this time my sisters husband should've been arrested for filing a false report and assault. But the police just let him go. So again foolishly my sister handed her kids off to the 'other brother in law' who has a record but it's not like she cares....
Again, police get called, children get taken away and my sister decides to let CPS take her children as long as she gets to stay with her husband. So now.... My parents have been denied the right to see them, let alone know where they are. They tried to get Temp. on custody but they can't because of my moms record. My sister refuses to talk to any of us so I shut off her phone, cable and internet service. Which unfortunately was the only thing that got her attention. So if she continues with her hissy fits then I'm turning off more services that are in my name.
So joyously I get to try and file for temporary custody of my nephew and my niece....All I can say is, wish me luck. Honestly I feel numb....Very Numb.
I never thought she'd be so spineless, but she is. She just handed them off to someone that we don't trust and cps doesn't trust and they let them hold onto the kids. I'm just....speechless. She had no real reason to hand them off to his step mom and dad to begin with besides "He was freaking out!" That's all her husband does, is freak out, beat on her, yell at his kids, drinks and cheats on my sister. How can she live with this I don't know but i'm tired of it.
I'm starting to think that it might be weird to see a girl before she's 20 to have 2 children. Idk I'm going to try to take in my nephew and my niece...My final nephew though, it's too late for him they handed him off to my aunt. Who's foolishly and surprisingly brainwashed him against us. But they'll have there's.
So this is really whats happening. My grandma is dying, which in all honesty I don't care about. My nephews had to go to court to rule about having trials and previous paperwork dismissed. Which it wasn't. My sister's husband cheats on her with an just recently turned 18 year old. My sisters husband wants a divorce but she's not letting him. He leaves goes and gets the girl he's been sleeping with and decides to have some quiet time with her on a mountain. Now supposedly he got into a wreck, rolled his truck and was suffering from a concussion and was bleeding profusely. Which was a lie to get people up there and to get search and rescue moving too. Within an hour of getting search and rescue they find him and the girl he was sleeping with. But he doesn't have any of the injuries that he said he had in the first place. Hell his truck didn't even roll over.
So my sister (as foolish as she is) may have gotten into a fight with her husband which resulted in her getting her nose broken, her face bruised and most likely kicked in the legs and stomach when she was on the ground. Now in defense of his older brother my quote on quote 'brother in law' said "They fight all the time." In which my mom yelled, "I don't think Jail did a damn thing for you." Now in this time my sisters husband should've been arrested for filing a false report and assault. But the police just let him go. So again foolishly my sister handed her kids off to the 'other brother in law' who has a record but it's not like she cares....
Again, police get called, children get taken away and my sister decides to let CPS take her children as long as she gets to stay with her husband. So now.... My parents have been denied the right to see them, let alone know where they are. They tried to get Temp. on custody but they can't because of my moms record. My sister refuses to talk to any of us so I shut off her phone, cable and internet service. Which unfortunately was the only thing that got her attention. So if she continues with her hissy fits then I'm turning off more services that are in my name.
So joyously I get to try and file for temporary custody of my nephew and my niece....All I can say is, wish me luck. Honestly I feel numb....Very Numb.
I can't comment on most of this stuff, but I think you did the right thing turning off anything that has your name on it. If your sister is having issues this serious, it might be wise for you to keep a safe distance until there's some resolution.
I do hope you're able to make some difference for your nephew and neice. Be strong and take care of yourself, OK?