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So I haven't been on for a few days and that has to do with basically losing two of my best friends.

It all started with my best friend's (Britt) boyfriend, Bama...who, incidentally, is my future brother-in-law. On Saint Patrick's Day, he decided to procure alcohol at 10 in the morning and blitz himself into passed-out drunkenness, regardless of the fact that Britt and I...
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zandros:
Thing that stood out most to me is him threatening to hit you. That's never right. He doesn't sound like a great bloke anyway (sorry if I'm insulting a friend, there is allot I don't know. History etc.) Sometimes people need to be told they're being a dick. Hell I know I do sometimes lol. Britt shoulda defended you but it sounds like she's woried about losing him again and didn't want to rock the boat. Do you mind if I ask a question?... Would you describe her as confident or self assured? 
kafrickinboom:
@zandros No, it's okay. He's definitely not a friend. He's always been kind of a dick, but this is just icing on the cake. Even Nick can't stand him...and that's his brother. Britt has always been confident and self-assured. She's always been strong and willful and unafraid to tell people how it is when they take a step in the douchey direction. We've stood up for each other so many times over the years, I couldn't even put a number to it now. I'm sure she is afraid of losing him, but if the tables were turned, there's not a chance I'd just sit idly by and let it happen :/ I'm just feeling very...unloved by my "best friend" right now.
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I'm grossly and violently sobbing. This song has hit me so strongly...


My dad skipped out on me when I was 6. He left for Florida to follow his mother without a look back. It was his mother, my grandma, that always brought me down to visit them every summer. He was barely around. He's still barely around. It wasn't until I was older and...
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javamanjaro:
I think it shows incredible strength on your part that you were able to overcome your former prejudices when he came along. You did it together! After all, that's what this relationship stuff is all about, right? Being, growing, and working together. 
kafrickinboom:
Thank you, @javamanjaro. It's crazy to look back at myself from that time with what I know now. Smh it's almost embarrassing lol. I'm a pretty lucky person to have my eyes opened, and to be in such a good relationship that allows for legitimate growth. I can't imagine being stuck in my old, prejudiced ways. Ugh lol.