Life and love and sex is allot like a movie. People who live their life predominately in the pursuit of lustful gratification with relationships based on sex. Their life is like a T and A movie with no substance, no story, no emotion. No matter how attractive they are things would eventually get boring. A great relationship should have the same ingredients that make a great movie great. Mystery, suspense, emotion, thrills, comedy, drama and most of all substance. I don't know where I am going with this. However it started with a friend of mine who is a plus size porn model. I kind of feel sorry for her because she has become her persona. She has .become what she thinks people want. A lust object. Visually exposed in most of her photos and almost every post on her social sites are sexually related. I notice a periodic sadness in her due to failed relationship attempts and I can totally see why. Its because she has become a porno movie. Lots of meaningless sex and bad acting , attracting all the wrong people. I have never seen a porno movie with a love story. Although I have seen a love story with a little bit of porn. 