Lately I've been bumming really hard. I don't know if it's because we've been in a new city and we haven't made any friends, or maybe it's because I'm not 100% happy with my job, or maybe it's because I'm disappointed in my appearance? Either way, I'm trying to push through it, hoping things will change in the future. But I am the one who decides my own fate right? What can I do to change what I'm not happy about? Without effecting other aspects of my life? Where is the happy median? 
