So I have finally figured out what the biggest problem with being single is for me...
There are absolutely no incentives to help push me to my goals, I'm very sexually oriented(obviousy I know), the only goals that work for me are of the fore mentioned type. Where I live there are very few of my type around and every girl I meet is either in I need a husband mode or 1 night stand type, so I can't find what I need to set my goals with which is causing alot of problems, I'm having trouble maintaining wieght and losing my motivation at the gym, let alone having a reason to stick to my diet... I'm not interested in a commited closed relationship and the only poly types out here are females that wiegh what I do and that unacceptable either way. Guess this is just a frusterated rant as I try to refind my motivation... hope everyone is doing better finding drive then me.
There are absolutely no incentives to help push me to my goals, I'm very sexually oriented(obviousy I know), the only goals that work for me are of the fore mentioned type. Where I live there are very few of my type around and every girl I meet is either in I need a husband mode or 1 night stand type, so I can't find what I need to set my goals with which is causing alot of problems, I'm having trouble maintaining wieght and losing my motivation at the gym, let alone having a reason to stick to my diet... I'm not interested in a commited closed relationship and the only poly types out here are females that wiegh what I do and that unacceptable either way. Guess this is just a frusterated rant as I try to refind my motivation... hope everyone is doing better finding drive then me.
cherrytrash:
When I decided to lose weight for myself instead of for other people, thats when it started practically falling off, you love working out, think of the sense of accomplishment that you get from passing goals. Kick your own ass and don't worry about the rest. I know you want to do it, so do it for you and the rest will follow <3
jujusage:
Thx, and I def saw a difference with you! I think I know where I need to go to find it but that'll be a whole new road for me as well, I think I may be taking the Dom lifestyle since the level of control would help me move in the right direction and push myself to acheive 'perfection' at all times even if I lack a sub 