I may have to move out of my house. My roommate gets drunk and does stupid things that affect me. Tonight the two of us went out. I went home before he did. He shows up around 2am with a bunch of strangers from France. I was about to go to bed when they all came in and started partying. Then my roommate left the house to go for a walk, leaving me to entertain these guys. After all was said and done and my roommate and I were alone, I told him that I was pissed. He got very angry with me for being pissed. He can say some pretty hurtful things when he's drunk. The whole thing has really got me twisted up.
On one hand, I've done a lot of maturing living here. Also, if I move out of this house, I'd have to move back in with my parents. That would not be very cool. I also get to party a lot and meet new people living here. A lot of the time it's great.
On the other hand, I could save so much money if I moved back in with mom and dad. I wouldn'y have to pay for rent or food or anything! I could even quit my job and become a freelance musician, something I've wanted for a long time. Plus, my roommate wouldn't be there to let strangers into the house and hurt my feelings. Luccas is very selfish. He only cares about himself. Other peoples needs and feelings (mine) come secondary to him. I get left out in the rain a lot, so to speak.
I don't know what to do. I think I'm going to have breakfast with my dad tomorrow and talk to him about it. You know, see what he thinks.
Can you guys let me know what you think as well? I'm at a loss here.
mike
On one hand, I've done a lot of maturing living here. Also, if I move out of this house, I'd have to move back in with my parents. That would not be very cool. I also get to party a lot and meet new people living here. A lot of the time it's great.
On the other hand, I could save so much money if I moved back in with mom and dad. I wouldn'y have to pay for rent or food or anything! I could even quit my job and become a freelance musician, something I've wanted for a long time. Plus, my roommate wouldn't be there to let strangers into the house and hurt my feelings. Luccas is very selfish. He only cares about himself. Other peoples needs and feelings (mine) come secondary to him. I get left out in the rain a lot, so to speak.
I don't know what to do. I think I'm going to have breakfast with my dad tomorrow and talk to him about it. You know, see what he thinks.
Can you guys let me know what you think as well? I'm at a loss here.
mike
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i'd talk to him about his attitude towards yourself and ask him to apologise for the things he said to you, because it obviously hurt you, and if he does'nt, i would'nt lose sleep over it. in fact tell him to go fuck himself.
but like you said if you do go back and stay with your parents, you can do the thing you've always wanted to do.
again the choice is yours, and maybe talking to your dad might help you make your decision.
been to the "hooker bar" lately