I hate feeling like this....I've been kinda dating this girl for a few weeks now and even though we both started the whole thing off by talking about how neither one of us wanted anything serious she has been getting kind of weird about me and it's making me uncomfortable. She's a nice enough girl and I know she means well, but we're really not compatible and this whole thing was more of a "someone to hang out with from time to time and fool around with a bit" but now it's become one of those situations where she calls me every day even on days I've seen her for several hours. I think my first mistake was thinking I could do this with someone I work with. I've gotten myself in trouble doing that before and always swore I wouldn't do it again, but since this was supposed to be nothing serious, I figured I was safe. Don't you just love it when the little head overrides the thinking of the big head? Now I have to figure out how to tell her we need to either ease off a LOT or just stop this all together. I'm kinda hooked on having somebody tell me how great I am all the time, but I'm already at that point where almost everything else that comes out of her mouth just grates on my nerves. The sad thing is that people were warning me to stay away from her before anything happened and I just blew off their warnings as "what do they know" type shit. I guess since they all know her better than I did, I should've listened. On top of all that it's leaked around to the whole workplace that we've been dating (or whatever) so now it's gonna be even more awkward to clean up this mess. Oh well, I think maybe I just need to do what a friend of mine keeps telling me and make sure to get him to approve any girls before I do anything. My luck with women is that bad, I really do need somebody watching out for me. Too bad he lives out in El Paso, that makes it a bit harder for him to keep an eye on things for me. Anybody want the job? It doesn't pay anything, but you get to hang out with me and how could anybody pass that up???
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Best thing to do is be up front about it with her. I've been in a situation where I was feeling it more than he was and he never let me know....and we worked together too...he would just string me along because he didn't know how to let me down. It was one of the most heartwrenching things I ever went thru. If this gal is really into you it's best to stop it cold, in a nice way. Don't let it go on too long till you're both miserable.
I too have made the mistake of not listening to advise of well meaning folk who tell me someone is bad news. They usually ended up being right.
I'll be posting that Back Alley Nurse soon when I take a digital shot later, I've been really busy lately....today I must get truck looked at and get ready for some traveling tomorrow for work. My boss called this morning and we are going to busy busy busy!!! I'll let you know when I post it.
Oh yeah! If you still want to swap music I'll gladly send you some good artwork in exchange for a cd from yourself recorded with whatever your little heart desires on it. I have a feeling that between Matt and me you probably have it already. Lemme know....and good luck with the chick!
Sorry, I'm in a Velveeta mood today.