So I have been struck down with more thoughts.... Why do people cause each other so much pain? I know I know, it isn't really what people set out to do. It is basically all collateral damage. I mean a friend from work and her fiance broke up this past weekend. It sucks because I know she is a very sweet girl and cute too. I mean sure no one ever knows why relationships are broken and I will not even begin to speculate as to why they broke up. Even though I want to know... it is better not to pry.
I never know what to tell a person when this happens because I don't know the whole situation. I mean I know when I broke up with my EX all my friends pretty much told me what I needed to hear. But then again all my friends new her really well because they all became her friends through me. I mean it kind of sucks that they all pretty much ended up on my side but if you knew the situation like they did you would understand.
It is easy to form an opinion about the other person if you only hear one side of the story. Which is what I tried not to do and so far have been successful.... at least in my mind I have. My friend from work is a cute, and sweet girl... but I don't know her really well, I don't know about how her relationship was and I don't know her EX at all. So I didn't say all those cliche lines like "he doesn't know what he is losing" because maybe he does? and maybe thats what he doesn't want? Or the "You are better off without him" how would I know? But I kind of do.... He didn't have a job and he is soon leaving to join the army.
I mean joining the army does not make him a bad guy, what im trying to say is that this put a strain on their relationship and she expressed that to me before. So ever since then she has been "out of it" and totally understandable. She is going through that first phase where she is in denial about things but is also transitioning to the acceptance of it. She is trying to go through it quickly and I know it won't work very well. All I can do is be there for when she needs me and that is what i'm going to do.
Oh and did I mention... this is the girl i'm taking on the cruise with me? This bothers me way in the back of my mind... did I cause this? Was he jealous? She told me she told him and he was fine with it.... but you gotta wonder. I am still taking her because she deserves it and it will help get her mind off things. It is also 2 months away so she will have some time to prepare. I know how she feels and know what she is going through.
It seems that this month is filled with drama or relationship problems. People on here... people around me.. people I know.. people I don't. Are all having relationship problems, breakups, love triangles, affairs, so much crazy stuff going on. However this is part of living and even if we want to or not, we all hurt someone one time or another.
On a lighter note I have been passing back and forth comments with a few people on here and I love the sense of community this site brings. I love talking to people from all over, it is fun and a great way to learn about people and what they like or don't.
The past few new sets are all amazing and beautiful. Check them all out.
I never know what to tell a person when this happens because I don't know the whole situation. I mean I know when I broke up with my EX all my friends pretty much told me what I needed to hear. But then again all my friends new her really well because they all became her friends through me. I mean it kind of sucks that they all pretty much ended up on my side but if you knew the situation like they did you would understand.
It is easy to form an opinion about the other person if you only hear one side of the story. Which is what I tried not to do and so far have been successful.... at least in my mind I have. My friend from work is a cute, and sweet girl... but I don't know her really well, I don't know about how her relationship was and I don't know her EX at all. So I didn't say all those cliche lines like "he doesn't know what he is losing" because maybe he does? and maybe thats what he doesn't want? Or the "You are better off without him" how would I know? But I kind of do.... He didn't have a job and he is soon leaving to join the army.
I mean joining the army does not make him a bad guy, what im trying to say is that this put a strain on their relationship and she expressed that to me before. So ever since then she has been "out of it" and totally understandable. She is going through that first phase where she is in denial about things but is also transitioning to the acceptance of it. She is trying to go through it quickly and I know it won't work very well. All I can do is be there for when she needs me and that is what i'm going to do.
Oh and did I mention... this is the girl i'm taking on the cruise with me? This bothers me way in the back of my mind... did I cause this? Was he jealous? She told me she told him and he was fine with it.... but you gotta wonder. I am still taking her because she deserves it and it will help get her mind off things. It is also 2 months away so she will have some time to prepare. I know how she feels and know what she is going through.
It seems that this month is filled with drama or relationship problems. People on here... people around me.. people I know.. people I don't. Are all having relationship problems, breakups, love triangles, affairs, so much crazy stuff going on. However this is part of living and even if we want to or not, we all hurt someone one time or another.
On a lighter note I have been passing back and forth comments with a few people on here and I love the sense of community this site brings. I love talking to people from all over, it is fun and a great way to learn about people and what they like or don't.
The past few new sets are all amazing and beautiful. Check them all out.
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xoxo
Sunshine
yeah!i m so happy in these days!
and you?