jillopiantubes

Wow. I just had a horrible fight with my mom. I thought that moving out was supposed to solve that? On her birthday I drove my family to see the lights downtown. On the ride up there I thought I'd get the conversation moving a little so I asked everyone to name a few goals that they have for themselves... so everyone goes and everyone ohhs and ahhs at the appropriate spots. "I want to get a new job, I want straight A's" etc. So its my turn and I say "I want to get 10 differnt degrees in 10 subjects..." I get cut off by mom mom "just finishs your first degree already damn it." So I shut up. Its her birthday I'll hold back what I wanted to say...

So then today my mom asks me if I got the oil changed in the car. (they are loaning me a car in return for me moving back to my hometown in bufu Illinois to help out the family business instead of staying in San Diego with my hubby and friends... good deal? I think not) SO I say yes, i got it changed at the oil place. But infact I did it myself. It saves fucking 15 bucks. Somehow my mom knows I didn't and then proceeds to call my a pathological liar. I explain that yes, i lied about getting it done, but I did indeed change it myself. I'm not stupid I know that cars need oil changes. SO anyways she proceeds to call me ungrateful and selfish etc and I'm ruining her christmas... AGH!!! Then she hangs up on me. THEN has my stepdad (who owns the car) come take my (his) car away while i was in my apartment. What the fuck? Is anyone elses family this fucked up? SHe called me afterwards and basically told me goodluck getting a new car and finding a job with out their car. (I obviously dont' have a job with them anymore) I live in fucking a town with 2000 people and no jobs and now i have no car to get anywhere. I know I'm bitching and bitching but it helps me to write. AGH. Jill