So.... hitting the "titty bars" has been a hot topic on the Geezers boards recently, and I have to come clean that it's my doing I guess it would seem that the topic is on my mind these days, probably because lately I've been going with my honey Flashmo to a great club here.... bikini dancers, Rockin' music, cheap drinks, and great food. YEE-FREAKIN' HAW!! That's just a hot time waiting to happen Did I happen to mention the body shots off the cute little brunette?? 'cause that's a hot night just waiting to happen fer rls!!
OK, so I gotta confess that I wasn't entirely sure how to feel about it the very first night when we ended up there together... I think I was feeling quite a few things all at the same time! Perhaps a little , with a bit of , and a tad of .... but mostly it was cause I was finally getting the chance to be a part of something with my honey that I'd never been able to be apart of before, and I was ecstatic! To some that may seem a little weird I guess, but it may help to know that there was once a time when I was really very threatened by his interest in things like SG or strip clubs, and we fought about it often. Then one day I guess I just realized that it wasn't the porn or the strip clubs themselves that bothered me... it was feeling like I was being left out of such a big part of his world that hurt!! Once I realized that, it was easier to quit fighting with him about it all of the time, and I began to embrace his interests instead. It became my goal to become the women of his fantasies, and to nurture an environment where we could be more open with each other without that nasty fear of vulnerability raising it's ugly head! I started by sending him "nekkid" self-portraits when he was away for work.... and then last April I screwed up all of my courage and posted my first set of amateur nudes as one of his birthday presents. And of course there's that HOPEFUL thing, too As a result, I've become more confident in myself, and comfortable with my sexuality, and I am not threatened when he looks at other women anymore.
Why am I telling you all of this? I guess I thought there may be other husbands who would being able to share freely this part of themselves with their wives, and I wanted you to know that it's not out of the realm of possibility. My husband welcomed me into this part of his world, and as a result I no longer feel threatened by it. If your wife is upset by you being here on SG, or gets bent if you want to go to the strip club, she may just really be pissed because she feels left out of a big part of your world. For me, I know that when my honey looks at other women on SG, or in the Club when we are out, that it's OK because I am the one who gets to go home with him at the end of the night when all is said and done When he shows me that I am still "the most special women he knows" even after all of these years together, then I am able to feel complete confidence of our love. So...the moral of the story is this:
If you are hoping that your wife will join you at the club, or send you some hot, hot, hot "nekkid" pictures of herself, or join you in doing body shots off the cute little brunette girl....just remember that she just might really love the idea of doing some body shots together with you! I guess what I am saying is that she just might if you let her Allow her to be a part of your world, she will love you for it... and it makes for pretty freakin' hot sex to boot!!
Hearts, Jewelz
PS> HAPPY THANKSGIVING!! AND to you all!!!!
OK, so I gotta confess that I wasn't entirely sure how to feel about it the very first night when we ended up there together... I think I was feeling quite a few things all at the same time! Perhaps a little , with a bit of , and a tad of .... but mostly it was cause I was finally getting the chance to be a part of something with my honey that I'd never been able to be apart of before, and I was ecstatic! To some that may seem a little weird I guess, but it may help to know that there was once a time when I was really very threatened by his interest in things like SG or strip clubs, and we fought about it often. Then one day I guess I just realized that it wasn't the porn or the strip clubs themselves that bothered me... it was feeling like I was being left out of such a big part of his world that hurt!! Once I realized that, it was easier to quit fighting with him about it all of the time, and I began to embrace his interests instead. It became my goal to become the women of his fantasies, and to nurture an environment where we could be more open with each other without that nasty fear of vulnerability raising it's ugly head! I started by sending him "nekkid" self-portraits when he was away for work.... and then last April I screwed up all of my courage and posted my first set of amateur nudes as one of his birthday presents. And of course there's that HOPEFUL thing, too As a result, I've become more confident in myself, and comfortable with my sexuality, and I am not threatened when he looks at other women anymore.
Why am I telling you all of this? I guess I thought there may be other husbands who would being able to share freely this part of themselves with their wives, and I wanted you to know that it's not out of the realm of possibility. My husband welcomed me into this part of his world, and as a result I no longer feel threatened by it. If your wife is upset by you being here on SG, or gets bent if you want to go to the strip club, she may just really be pissed because she feels left out of a big part of your world. For me, I know that when my honey looks at other women on SG, or in the Club when we are out, that it's OK because I am the one who gets to go home with him at the end of the night when all is said and done When he shows me that I am still "the most special women he knows" even after all of these years together, then I am able to feel complete confidence of our love. So...the moral of the story is this:
If you are hoping that your wife will join you at the club, or send you some hot, hot, hot "nekkid" pictures of herself, or join you in doing body shots off the cute little brunette girl....just remember that she just might really love the idea of doing some body shots together with you! I guess what I am saying is that she just might if you let her Allow her to be a part of your world, she will love you for it... and it makes for pretty freakin' hot sex to boot!!
Hearts, Jewelz
PS> HAPPY THANKSGIVING!! AND to you all!!!!
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