II consider myself a very independent woman i pay my own bills pump my own gas carry out my groceries. Its just how i am maybe im being hard on myself or am i ok. I dont know somedays. I love the solitude of being home not much of a going out person crowds noise it all bothers me . I have quirks beliefs that i see in myself everyday. I have phobias fears but do they make me less of a person.im not perfect by any means do i wish i was of course. Dont think it will happen tho. Does society put too much pressure on us to look and be perfect everyday. Well i for one have never been big on what people think of me . So there you have it another look inside me.