okay everyone i need help have huge decision to make. do i get my tubes tied or not? if i do no kids if i dont kids but i will be 40 in two months.the risk of having a baby with diffuculties raises so i dont know where to go. do i listen to my finance or my parents. who do i male happy and who do i disappoint.i dont know anymore i need insight help advice something. i guess thats all i have for now good thing i have two weeks off i need it love jen
roach_wong:
Wow... That's a tough question to toss out there. If you are perfectly fine without having kids I suppose it's an easy one but to pose that question out there I would think that you must have that one thought that you may want kids past 40. I had heard that there is more risk for complications or "difficulty" with kids after 40 but that shouldn't scare people from having kids at that age. Many people have beautiful babies after 40. Also, I suppose one way to look at it is that you don't have kids to create the superior race (so challenge is okay)... You have kids out of love (if your the traditional type) or because a higher being thought that there was a need for that individual life to exist in the world. So I guess it really comes to do you ever feel that urge to produce life from your own DNA and if so then...