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i never thought i would say or write these words

but it happened

the big multinational who could not be bothered to pay me correctly or for my worth fired me while i was on sick leave

unbelievable

even with input from fair work australia they are still saying they operated within the law

unbelievable

thank god for my lovely valentine and champagne

otherwise

there...
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platypuz:
Fuck that,that's just wrong. I hope you check all your options. Thank god for champers n lovers indeed.
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hi sg world.

my job has gone to shit - but what is news.

this seems to happen to me on a yearly-eighteen monthly cycle.

all i want in life is a stable job and a happy home life.

it seems this is never going to happen for me!

so down right now :(

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three weeks holiday and one swing later



i am back in the game smile

jc
xxx
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velvetfaerie:
I need one of those...

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badangela:
That sounds good.
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decision made
in the end i was offered both positions however i have made a decision now after much 'seeking' internally
i am comfortable with the decision however i do wonder what each future will look like but am sad not to be able to find out - i can't be in two places
damn you sliding doors for leading my thinking that it is...
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velvetfaerie:
Good news !!!
YYAAAAAAYY...

I lol'd at the parent comment.....
Bloody things !

biggrin
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job interviews over
got one offer so far....

now the anxiety will be which one to take

i hate being in that place

oh - i have not got the second offer yet....

jc
x
velvetfaerie:
**breath**
and think and be positive....
You have taken the first steps....

smile
platypuz:
Any news yet on the second offer ?
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positive vibes will be so appreciated right now
i have started to look for work - poked my head out
and although the anxiety has increased, i am learning to live with it more 'comfortably'
the worst thing is the anxiety is social and social is work
blegh!
i have an interview tomorrow and an interview on Friday
would be very happy with either job
jc...
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badangela:
good luck with the interviews.
puffin:
aw thanks for the support! xxx good luck with your interview!
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my learning curve of right now


To Cope with Anxiety, Remember A-W-A-R-E

The key to switching out of an anxiety state is to accept it fully. Remaining in the present and accepting your anxiety cause it to disappear.

A: Accept the anxiety. Welcome it. Dont fight it. Replace your rejection, anger, and hatred of it with acceptance. By resisting, youre prolonging the unpleasantness of it...
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velvetfaerie:
PHEW... I am such a twit sometimes LOL.
I life by this - if they don't matter to you, don't let them upset you.
Fuck 'em !
They do not deserve to ruin your day....
avidity:
thank you sweetie! i'm really excited. it's a whole new life after this. i'm trying to soak up as much me time as i can right now before she arrives.
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positive vibes my way please!
i would really appreciate it
love
jc
xxx
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goldenbunz:
~~~VIBES~~~~ smile
platypuz:
Whats going on ? Hope all is ok.
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sorry guys for the sucky post
thanks for your responses

nothing major is happening in my life
but
i feel like i am on the same merry go round i have
been on for the last 10 years
since glen died it has been a cycle:

life is bad
life gets sorted out
life cruises
i holiday
life is bad
life gets sorted out
life...
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badangela:
It is hard to stop cycles like that. I guess you just hope that next time the cycle comes around that life isn't as bad as it was the last time. Hopefully life will get easier for you
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merry go round
swings and roundabouts

they sound fun
BUT
they are not....


frown
jc
xxx
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platypuz:
Roundabouts make me nauseous frown
badangela:
frown I hope you are ok.
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happy australia day
hope you are enjoying all the things that make Australia what it is - for us:

Hottest 100 - the worlds greatest democracy
Cider
Beer
Good Australian Produce
bacon, eggs, hash browns with thyme
lamb shanks,
bruscetta with capers, pecorino and cherry tomatos
gnocci

love it

jc
xxx
velvetfaerie:
FUCK
I forgot about the hottest 100 !!!!!!!!!!!
I've been watching doccos on british metal....
There would be no british metal in the hottest 100
frown
HAPPY AUS DAAYYYYYY

xxx
badangela:
cider and lamb shanks are always good. I am glad you enjoyed the day.
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well
we are
back in teh world of reality
it has taken 4 days for us to come down to it

Singapore was amazing
the cruise - indescribable....
i even karaoke-d - rock on 'dancing queen'

but unfortunately for us it is back to work on Wednesday
and i will be gone for about 5 weeks frown
on a brighter note
the work will pay for our next...
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writeboy:
Sounds like fun! Your next cruise sounds awesome.

And thanks for the kind words on Auburn's set smile
platypuz:
Glad you had a good time,im keen to visit singapore or maybe hong kong some time in the future.I'd go mad on a cruise im sure.