janegeraldine

I am in the middle of seriously wondering where some people come from. How do people come into existence that have no clue what it means to be a human being? I work with this guy who I had some romantic interest in a few months ago. We talked all the time, have a lot in common, make each other laugh, whatever. He texted me one night and said he wanted to hang out, so of course I did. The day after we hung out we were outside having a cigarette, just talking, and he told me I'm the coolest chick he's ever known, he thinks I'm really cute, and hanging out with me is a lot of fun...but I'm not his type. Ok, fine. It makes no sense to me, but if that's how you feel, there's not much I can do about it. A couple days later he told my best friend (whom I also work with) that he was going to start hanging out with his ex girlfriend even though she isn't nice to him, makes fun of him, and messes with his head. I figured the guy is beyond my comprehension, so I got over it. Today he came into my office and closed the door, sat down and said that now that I have lost weight (over eighty pounds since December!!) he wants to start hanging out with me again because I'm closer to his standard of "hotness." WTF is that?? How can someone think it's ok to say that? In what world would this be the ideal pickup line? I would think he could have come up with some BS about being wrong about what he had said. ANYTHING would have been better. I can't believe he honestly thought that telling me I wasn't good enough for him forty pounds ago would get me all ecstatic at the prospect of being with him now. I am so absolutely dumbfounded I can't even say.