My co-workers and I were talking and I don't know how it came up but I told them, ''I used to be a super nice guy to always helped everyone without question.''

One co-worker said, ''What changed James?"

I said, "I needed help once.''

Another worker said, ''Oh yeah that explains it. I used to be a nice guy too until I needed help.''

When you drop everything and help people you expect to be treated the same way you treated others. When that doesn't happen, you learn quickly who your friends are. Well I learned quickly. I can't speak for everyone.