Anyone ever have that happen to them? As soon as one gets a mate they stop all communication with you. It's happened to me. It's happen to everyone I know. My co-worker made me think of this. She has, or rather had a best friend who is a lesbian. who also is a co-worker. And this co-worker is dating someone from our department. I guess when it started, she stopped talking to my co-worker. Now my co-worker is going to a different shift and her only goal is to get that person fired (her lezbo lover not her lezbo friend).
What is wrong with this picture? Maybe it's a girl thing. lol. First, you shouldn't go after your friend's lover. Second, your friend was fake. Fake friends are the one's who after they get what they want, they say bye bye. Real friends wouldn't do that. If the new mate has a problem with your friendships, then they shouldn't be your mate.
When I get a mate, I'm still going to do what I want. Only thing would be I wouldn't be looking for a mate. I also would be spending more time with my mate. Which of course that means less time with my friends but I'd still hang out with them. I'm just going to and want to spend time with my mate. I'll just have more fun. I'll be happier. I also want my mate to do the same with her friends. Hell, maybe even throw one big party and my friends and her friends could become friends. haha perfect world eh?
No, I wouldn't change. I'll just have someone to look forward coming home to after work. I'll have someone to cuddle and talk with daily. I'll have someone to go out and do things with instead of going solo. I'll tag her along with me to visit friends and I'll be the tag for her and her friends.
No I wouldn't change. I'll just be me plus one.
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