Let me start by letting you know that I dont judge anyone on anything except for the way that they myself and others. I try not to allow negativity into my life. With that being said, is it wrong for me to not join some great friends of mine(2 straight women, 1 gay man, and 2 lesbians) at a gay bar because I would be uncomfortable in the joint? The last thing I want is to make them feel bad and I rarely miss an oportunity to kick it with them, however, this place is just a little out of my comfort zone. I do not want to be approached by men! Thats just not how I roll. Am I an ass for feeling like this? New ink. just wanted to share it.