Is not even that secret.
1. Be honest with yourself
Don't be ashamed of what you feel about a certain person, events, actions, words. Being honest with youself is the key to the harmony in everything including love. Never regret your feelings either! They're here for a reason and it's what makes us human.
2. Be honest with your loved one
Honesty is the key to the most healthy and rich and passionate relationship. Hiding and lying never works. Honesty brings you to better and happier places.
3. Talk
The hardest "ingredient" for most of us, but the most important. Express your feelings and your thoughts RIGHT AWAY, never put off any talk happy or sad.
4. Listen and hear
Sometimes you don't have to even talk back. People underestimate how valuable it is to just have someone to listen to you. While you listen, hear what another person is saying. An important message might not be put in words, but if you listen and hear, you'll always know.
5. Don't take anything for granted
6. Never stop trying
Trying to become a better person. You're not only growing old together, you're helping each other improve.
7. Hold hands
Some might consider it childish, but that's one of the most intimate things out there.
@missy @rambo
