i hurt so much right now. it's so hard to know what the right thing is to do with myself. of course it revolves around my girlfriend, we fought, again.. how does one know what the right thing is to do? being alone hurts, but being together and miserable is just as bad. i weigh the good times and i weigh the bad times, and it's hard to know whats winning. i've learned a lot from her, about being a good boyfriend and being a bad boyfriend. i know we're both in the wrong, but where do i draw the line?
abia:
In my opinion drawing the line is sacrificing your morals, values or happiness for the other person. Once you go past this I think that the line is drawn.
wtf:
^ Yup, have to make yourself happy first. Although, there is something to be said for learning together. Watch that the resentment doesn't grow, on both sides if YOU aren't meeting YOUR own needs, it can be deadly.