innocentmind

I confessed to my supervisor that i didn't initially think we were a good fit (since I'm so cognitive and content-focused) but that I've since revised my view. I now think she may offer a good counterbalancing influence that teaches me to pay more attention to people's emotional patterns toward me while in session.

For example, one of my clients pointed out the badge I...
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I'm very amused. Somebody on the site on which I met Cody months ago (who I had previously written before I was taken) finally wrote back:

"are you real? or just another porno crap add?

I'm sort of flattered.

My mom is strange. She wanted me to look up a particular type of shoe to buy in my area, so I did. She writes back:

"You are a pistol We will go for sure and I will get four pair They are so soft and beautiful like you

Love you Have fun"

Interesting compliment...

The people in costume that try to pop out and scare you with fake chainsaws at Universal in the nighttime are lame, but not as lame as the girls that scream every time. When one person in a pig mask snorted at me when I was tying my shoelaces, I told him, "Mmm, pork. My favorite meat."

On the other hand, getting to walk through...
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I forgot how wonderfully cheesy this was. Steve Martin, the sadistic dentist. LOL. "He'll pull your teeth out like the Marquis de Sade." Ah, the movies of my childhood...

What is with the celebrity baby obsession lately? Every gossip magazine jumps at the opportunity to report a new pregnancy announcement with huge pictures and captions on the cover. I don't give a crap about J.Lo's growing spawn or Britney's abused, neglected retards. It seems like, these days, there's a greater fascination for the mundane, fundamentally human aspects of celebrities in order to bring them...
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Knowing that my need for space can be tolerated and respected is a real turn-on. The body responds to the right ideas at the back of the head. Dr. Schnarch was absolutely right to combine couples therapy with sex therapy. I'd like to eventually read his book The Sexual Crucible when there's time. Well, I'm only taking one course at the moment aside from internship...
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Klodi - the Eurasian beauty - looks like a supermodel. What the hell is she doing on SG?!

I like enabling a dominant guy to feel power with me in specific ways that work for both of us so that he doesn't have any need to put me down or domineer to fulfill that instinct. If girls just knew to let their guy feel like he's on top, then a lot of conflict and negativity might be spared.

Give in a little and...
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"Sarcasm is your body's natural defense against stupid."
-Cody's shirt

"For success in science or art, a dash of autism is essential."
-Hans Asperger, 1944

I've managed to map out a trajectory of phases I experience at the beginning of every relationship.

1 - discomfort from unfamiliarity phase (painful getting acquainted and accustomed to newness)
2 - euphoric novelty of desired person phase (dopamine heaven)
3 - loss of singleness crisis phase ("Why should I do this and be with you?" type questioning after dopamine has returned to normal. Partially...
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