Everything happens for a reason. Every action has a reaction. Remember that whats meant to be will always find a way to come about."
This is an awesome quote. My Amazing wife PrincessT and I have been together for almost 8 years. It's been a bumpy road to this point, but we are finally to the point where we are totally in sync with one another. From the very beginning of our relationship, we had communications issues. Finally things got so bad last year, we ended up in marriage counseling. Basically from this, we learned to communicate our true feelings to one another and most importantly to ourselves.
Also in the process, we learned about human nature. Although I didn't cheat on T (PrincessT) last year, I was on the path to doing so. I realized it before it was too late. The past several months have been an emotional roller coaster. But we have arrived. We realized that there is a difference between "Love" & "Sex". Just because I might be attracted to another individual physically, does not mean that I love T any less. It doesn't mean that I desire her less as well. On the contrary, our openness to talk sexually about other people has brought us closer...just think about it...if you can talk to your Partner about sex with another person, then there is nothing that you can't talk about.
We are only at the beginning of our Open Relationship adventure. We are taking it slow, step by step, and trying to do what's best for each of us in order to meet our physical needs and to continue to build our emotional, loving relationship with each other. So far so good...we have set some basic rules, but as we discuss different aspects of our Openness, we are actually learning about ourselves in the process.
Thank you T for being in my life. Thank you T for loving me. Thank you T for bringing out my true self. I couldn't have done it without you. I love you T!
C