When the closest person to you and the biggest reason for your sobriety doesn't seem to know that the one year anniversary is near and is pretty much ready to divorce you, it would make most people question how to or fail to stay sober. If one is physically, mentally and verbally attacked and belittled repeatedly which is why I started drinking in the first place it would be extremely difficult to stay sober. But between my yoga practice and my sobriety I have been able to be hurt but not hurt back. having been forced to go to counseling and to bring my son to counseling and to even go to marriage counseling. Repeatedly her failing again and again see the common element, when more than one counselor has pointed out some of her flaws and need to change... until now. I think she has finally seen how bad she can get an angry and upset and not see other peoples hurt or remember things that she has said.
goriella:
Wow! That is Big! Staying sober is definitely a challenge and makes escape nearly impossible. It's gotta be hard when the person that you are mostly doing this for isn't supporting your efforts. Just try to remember that this benefits you as well. Do it for yourself and hopefully she will follow. I think you are doing great though 
mortis322:
CONGRATULATIONS ON STAYING SOBER!! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK