infernorecords07

this is a email from a friend .. i like the way he thinks.. alex is my ex fiance..

Yeah, I think I'm going to have to say that it's time to move on. I'm
sorry
to say, but if Alex is actually being mean about shit, then it's done.
Alex
is the most passive person I've ever met, and for him to actually say
that
kind of shit then he must be wanting to end it but not having the guts
to
actually do it. Sorry but that's just the way it seems to me. What
you
need to do is step outside yourself and look at it objectively (I know
this
is hard to do for a woman) to get past any feelings you might have and
see
why it's worth staying. Even though I haven't been around you and Alex
a
whole lot, I have to agree with Ryan and say that you two aren't good
for
each other. When I came home for Christmas, I told Ryan this and that
I
didn't think it would last. What's the point in putting so much energy
into
something that obviously doesn't mean that much to him. I'm sorry to
say it
but I don't think the problem isn't him, it's you. I'm not saying that
you're at fault for the relation falling apart (that seems like it's
his
fault). But you are at fault for your own pain and suffering that you
are
enduring right now. You need to find out why you are staying. And
don't
say that it's out of love, look deeper than that. You are a very good
looking, smart, funny, and all around good person who deserves to be
happy.
Just go find it. It's as simple as that. Find out what makes you
happy and
go get it. But of course all this is just my opinion, I could be wrong
(which of course has never happened). Oh and you suck. Back packing
through Europe has been my dream for years now. Hopefully I'll
actually the
chance to do it before I go. Even if I have to go alone I am going to
do
this although it would be nice to have some one along. Well take care and remember life's too short put
up
with his bullshit. Oh and you couldn't bore if you tried.

Bobby