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What's it called when you feel good when you see someone else in misery? I think it's a German word? Well, I might never be able to talk to a certain girl except for hello and goodbye, but I just read a friends email, hehe/sniff. He asked her if everything was okay, and she said yes. Then the next time he called she said she was breaking up with him, because he never calls and never wants to know how she feels. Now, I know the guy and he is a genuinely concerned guy and is no way a jerk. Another friend was pretty much dumped the same way, and he told me it's because women don't want to offend the guy by telling them what's really wrong so instead they just mess with their heads which is somehow ok?
Maybe it's like on this tv show I caught once where the girl says i dumped you because the sex was boring i wanted to bring a second woman into it and the guy's jaw drops because he had no clue. "We've got verbal constipation" Let's Start Throwing Things by Ned's Atomic Dustbin.

Maybe this stuff is more suited to www.notproud.com <shrugs>