Well, it's the beginning of another weekend...we've had the kids since Tuesday night..I figured we would have them non-stop through the weekend when Vanny handed me his youngest's pills for ADHD and there were 7 of them..that's always a good indication their mom doens't plan on being around to watch them for a while. I failed at being super mom today too...which I was not too happy about..I went to my oldest's poetry reading today and ended up being late to pick up my youngest from school..I had to get her from the office and they had already called her mom...so now her mom thinks Vanny and I are horribly irresponsible...never mind how many times SHE'S been late to pick up the kids..and I'VE had to go pick them up because she couldn't get there on time...gee...the bitch...and of course we couldn't tell her WHY I was running slightly late because she would absolutely shit herself!! She doesn't want me to have anything to do with the kids...let me give you an example...had we told her about the poetry reading this is what would have happened..she would have said she was going to go...and then she would have been unable to make it...and we would have found out from our oldest later..but she wouldn't have bothered to call us and tell us because she would rather no one be there for her kids then me be there for her kids...she HATES me.....it's sad when people are this predictable....really, really sad....
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ash:
ooooomph, thats one hella situation there girl. I dont know what Id do if I had to be the .. step mom. Thats a situation Im not sure Id be able to handle well. Ive always been the mom of the kid, never the "step" mom, and Im not sure how Id react if my sons biological father was involved with someone I didnt particularly like. Its gotta be so tough. Especially since the kids are so innocent and they have no idea why everyone fights and hates each other. It really has a negative impact on the kids when the real parents talk bad abt the step parents and vice versa. Im sure your man's ex woman is creating more problems for her kids by not working with you, but rather against you.
wordamouth:
In regards to your journal-She can think what ever she wants to think I guess. Only U know who U really are. It's her lost if she chose to be a bitch. Anyway, I mistakenly deleted her comment. I was reading your profile & I dig a lot of things about U. If U have some poetry, I love to read them.