I little lesson on dealing with me. . .
I'm a relatively kind and easygoing person, but it's not like things don't bother me. When something is said or done to me out of absolute stupidity I get a dose of perturbness along with my annoyance. I get annoyed that someone was dumb enough to annoy me. I get mad because they made me mad, aside from the actual thing that made me mad. I don't like being angry; you wouldn't like it if I were angry . . . word you the wise . . . Dont make me angry. I won't come out and say "humph, you made me angry" nor will I pout and try to drop you hints Im mad at you. Ill go on about my business as if you don't exist. Go about my business as if everything was as right as rain. Write you off as someone I dont need to know anymore. Unless you are one of the special few who will never be rid of me and I will make your life a living hell until you apologize to me or the situation is fixed is some way.
Another thing, being treated like a child . . . ummmm yea I don't like that one either. Im the youngest of 3 and have worked very hard at being understood as a very intelligent person more mature than my age. Im thoughtful and try to see all situations from all possible points of view. Talking down to be will only get the results listed above.
Lastly, if Im in a bad mood and you're around me, don't assume you are the sole cause of my ill demeanor. Im not the kind of person to drop all my shit on a table to leave people to sort through. I keep my shit to myself and only let out what I feel is important. If I let something out or ask you advice on something, know full well that there will be at least 5 other big issues going on in my life and Im throwing that out at you because I needed help juggling my issues at that moment. Those moments don't last long. I usually need someone to just listen and then try to cheer me up. Or just cheer me up. There is a lot more to me than most people would think. Im the one with the responsibility to understand myself, a lot of the time I dont, that doesnt mean you have to try too.
Moral of the story, dont piss me off and you'll never have to worry about this.
I'm a relatively kind and easygoing person, but it's not like things don't bother me. When something is said or done to me out of absolute stupidity I get a dose of perturbness along with my annoyance. I get annoyed that someone was dumb enough to annoy me. I get mad because they made me mad, aside from the actual thing that made me mad. I don't like being angry; you wouldn't like it if I were angry . . . word you the wise . . . Dont make me angry. I won't come out and say "humph, you made me angry" nor will I pout and try to drop you hints Im mad at you. Ill go on about my business as if you don't exist. Go about my business as if everything was as right as rain. Write you off as someone I dont need to know anymore. Unless you are one of the special few who will never be rid of me and I will make your life a living hell until you apologize to me or the situation is fixed is some way.
Another thing, being treated like a child . . . ummmm yea I don't like that one either. Im the youngest of 3 and have worked very hard at being understood as a very intelligent person more mature than my age. Im thoughtful and try to see all situations from all possible points of view. Talking down to be will only get the results listed above.
Lastly, if Im in a bad mood and you're around me, don't assume you are the sole cause of my ill demeanor. Im not the kind of person to drop all my shit on a table to leave people to sort through. I keep my shit to myself and only let out what I feel is important. If I let something out or ask you advice on something, know full well that there will be at least 5 other big issues going on in my life and Im throwing that out at you because I needed help juggling my issues at that moment. Those moments don't last long. I usually need someone to just listen and then try to cheer me up. Or just cheer me up. There is a lot more to me than most people would think. Im the one with the responsibility to understand myself, a lot of the time I dont, that doesnt mean you have to try too.
Moral of the story, dont piss me off and you'll never have to worry about this.
talk to u soon , and thanks for adding me even tho my picture creeped u out!
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rob