There is a type of Sex that exists which I have never experienced up until now. For a short while now, I have been dating this amazing man who has been a fierce friend and encouraging presence. This is the first person in years who has been able to make love to me without causing immense pain to me. The amount of patience and gentleness and self control this man has is a blessing, and quite astounding considering he is quite... shall we say, gifted in a certain department.
Having a sexual relationship with someone wherein neither of you feel the need to change or 'fix' or 'save' the other person has been this new experience. I am happy with who I am and who he is...we both have great friends, careers, and a passion to continue to evolve.
What is this sincerity during Sex all about? Granted, we have all had lovers that care about us getting off and such, but every way he touches me feels so thought out to please me. I won't go into raunchy detail, but I can truly say that our Sex is how everyone in love should have it. Not entirely sure which of my bruises are from kyokushin, and which are from sex, but the acquisition of both has left me craving more and feeling empowered.
My apologies for the bragging, I would like to know some of your experiences with loving sex, too. ššš
