I am bummed
My best girlfriend is having lots of trouble with her boyfriend, and while i know its not my business I am very concerned. I think he is making her life really bad. They fight all the time and she never seems happy anymore. I think she is really selling herself short, because she doesn't get to do anything she likes without him jumping down her throat, and while I know its her problem if she stay on her free will, I think she is really overwhelmed by the idea of leaving. She has a decent concept of what love is, and so she is very patient with peoples b.s., but I think she is not giving herself what she needs by being with him 24/7-like she is so consumed with the relationship drama, she doesn't get to give her life as much focus. I told her I was worried about her. I do like her boyfriend, I just don't like him as my best friends boyfriend. He doesn't treat her right, and while my girl is no angel, I think she just really wants love and to love and for shit to work out for her, and I think she needs the strength to call it quits. I told her I was worried for her, since she has not seemed happy at all these past few weeks, and that I thought she needed to see the sign, but I don't know if she was trying to hear that. I don't believe in judging people or adding your 2 cents, but when my personal time is affected by what some guy is doing or not doing to my friend, I feel I have to say "HOLD UP!!!". Was I wrong to say anything?? I am not gonna say anymore to her about it unless she specifically asks, but I just wanted to let her know I noticed that she's been acting different, and it wasn't in a good way. She use to be so happy, or at least more bouncy. She seems stressed a lot these days. Love should not hurt like this!!!!
I am sleepy. I am about to start to collage a new journal for myself. YEAH!!!
PEACE
My best girlfriend is having lots of trouble with her boyfriend, and while i know its not my business I am very concerned. I think he is making her life really bad. They fight all the time and she never seems happy anymore. I think she is really selling herself short, because she doesn't get to do anything she likes without him jumping down her throat, and while I know its her problem if she stay on her free will, I think she is really overwhelmed by the idea of leaving. She has a decent concept of what love is, and so she is very patient with peoples b.s., but I think she is not giving herself what she needs by being with him 24/7-like she is so consumed with the relationship drama, she doesn't get to give her life as much focus. I told her I was worried about her. I do like her boyfriend, I just don't like him as my best friends boyfriend. He doesn't treat her right, and while my girl is no angel, I think she just really wants love and to love and for shit to work out for her, and I think she needs the strength to call it quits. I told her I was worried for her, since she has not seemed happy at all these past few weeks, and that I thought she needed to see the sign, but I don't know if she was trying to hear that. I don't believe in judging people or adding your 2 cents, but when my personal time is affected by what some guy is doing or not doing to my friend, I feel I have to say "HOLD UP!!!". Was I wrong to say anything?? I am not gonna say anymore to her about it unless she specifically asks, but I just wanted to let her know I noticed that she's been acting different, and it wasn't in a good way. She use to be so happy, or at least more bouncy. She seems stressed a lot these days. Love should not hurt like this!!!!
I am sleepy. I am about to start to collage a new journal for myself. YEAH!!!
PEACE