Ok I promise they won't all be about bitching but some things just drive me fucking crazy.
When someone sends me a friend request I have one non starter. If you don't have a publicly accessible picture of your self, preferably your profile picture, why should I waste my time. My pictures and videos are not blocked so perv away, but if you want to follow me or be my "friend" I'd like to know that you at least have the balls to show your face. That being said I do also actually look at your profile 90% of the time when I get a request. I look at what you comment on and what you are into. I don't automatically shut anyone down I just want to make sure you aren't too rapey, or otherwise make me really fucking uncomfortable.
Recently I've had a few guys send requests or messages who are really new to the site. That's cool and welcome to you. I noticed a trend though in their comments. Many of them are sent to girls with really pathetic blog posts. I get that people have down days, I get that people have real shit going on but sometimes people are just fishing or appear depressed to the point that they really need help. I'm not sure that they really are because most of them just appear to be begging for attention.
"I don't know why I write this, I will just fade into the background like everywhere else." yes, with blog posts like that you will. Get an opinion, get some self confidence. People are on here because women are fucking kick ass and beautiful. Something to be admired and celebrated in all shapes sizes and perversions. Look around you if you think you are going to fade into the background. Short, skinny, fat, nerdy, emo, depressed, tatted up, pierced, and any type of fetish you have can all be found here. I love them all, I love all them men who love them (except the rapey ones). What I don't like is people who try to get attention by looking like they need to be saved.
When someone sends me a friend request I have one non starter. If you don't have a publicly accessible picture of your self, preferably your profile picture, why should I waste my time. My pictures and videos are not blocked so perv away, but if you want to follow me or be my "friend" I'd like to know that you at least have the balls to show your face. That being said I do also actually look at your profile 90% of the time when I get a request. I look at what you comment on and what you are into. I don't automatically shut anyone down I just want to make sure you aren't too rapey, or otherwise make me really fucking uncomfortable.
Recently I've had a few guys send requests or messages who are really new to the site. That's cool and welcome to you. I noticed a trend though in their comments. Many of them are sent to girls with really pathetic blog posts. I get that people have down days, I get that people have real shit going on but sometimes people are just fishing or appear depressed to the point that they really need help. I'm not sure that they really are because most of them just appear to be begging for attention.
"I don't know why I write this, I will just fade into the background like everywhere else." yes, with blog posts like that you will. Get an opinion, get some self confidence. People are on here because women are fucking kick ass and beautiful. Something to be admired and celebrated in all shapes sizes and perversions. Look around you if you think you are going to fade into the background. Short, skinny, fat, nerdy, emo, depressed, tatted up, pierced, and any type of fetish you have can all be found here. I love them all, I love all them men who love them (except the rapey ones). What I don't like is people who try to get attention by looking like they need to be saved.
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only1doc:
tell it like it is darlin
matrixphoenix007:
Well said!