honeybee1979

So, it's been awhile since I've done any kind of update on our search for the white unicorn. We've been putting some effort into it for about a month now.

There's a girl who cleans my office, she is fucking hot, curvy tatted up, great smile, did I mention killer curves. We've been friends for about a year but only see each other at work events. I've joked that she can fuck Nate if she wants to. We talk really openly about life and love and sex. I showed her the SG website and Nate even offered to pay for her membership because despite all her bravado she has some self esteem issues and I think the site would be great for her. We flirt jokingly sometimes and she's mentioned several times that she's like to go out sometime with Nate and I. A few weeks ago she casually mentioned to me that she has had sex with a couple before and said a few other things. It's hard to tell if it's pointed because we talk about all sorts of sex stuff. I've asked her the last few times Nate and I went out to join us. She gets really excited about it, but then backs out at the last minute. I thought she might be afraid we are going to molest her since she knows we are into inviting someone into out bed so I let her know that we aren't asking her to fuck us just to have a good time. Nate and I are no drama we have no expectations we always just go with the flow of the evening and have a great time. I feel like she gets to thinking about it and is afraid that it would get awkward at work, or maybe the excuses are real, she is the single mom of three kids. We have found our mates and aren't into being strung along plus we don't NEED anyone else to have a good time so I just left that one open ended. I told her we'd love to just go out (if it goes further that's cool too cause we think she's hot) just let us know when you're up for it. She said if we went out she and I would probably end up in some trouble. Oh well, maybe she's just all talk.

Woman number #2. This past weekend after being a little ditched by woman #1 we went out to meet new people. Our town has the best drag show around and the people at the bar are always open and wild and a blast. Nate and I were checking out the girl standing in front of us and she caught us. I ran into her outside smoking and we struck up and conversation. She said I was hot and asked why we pointed at her. I said because we think you are hot and would love to get you into bed. She liked that and we flirted and talked with her and the couple she came with for the rest of the night (It was her best friend and boyfriend). It was a blast. She asked for my facebook info so we connected there and she gave me her #. She flirted with Nate even kissed him on the check and let him grab her ass (nice ass, oh I love curvy girls). At the end of the night I sent her a text that said I wish she was coming home with us and she said another time. I was drunk so sent another text that said we'd love to strip you down and please your pussy. Too far? Maybe but she texted back "that's fucking awesome." The next day I got a facebook message from her saying she had a blast and we should go out together sometime soon. I sent one back saying we'd love to it will probably the weekend after next that we go out again.

Not sure what to do from here. Anyone who's been there advice would be great. Wait and text her closer to when we can go out? Flirt with her? Make her aware we want her to be our 3rd? We're cool with nothing happening if we do go out. We are trying to find a 3rd but we are also looking to just meet open minded people we can go out with and have a good time.