holland

If sex and the city taught me anything, is that a relationship with terrible sex, will not last.
Although we are most evolved mammels on earth, we still have our animal instincts to want to hump like rabbits.
If you can not have good sex with an individual you are 'in a relationship' with, eventually it will loose its flame. There needs to be that passion, that lust, that want for another kiss and one more night.
Lately people have been replacing that with one night stands, which also i feel, is kind of boring. Altho its like a drug and is a quick fix to this want for human affection, i dont believe that it compleatly fufills the quality of what makes good sex. Sex with out emotion is just fucking, and sex with splenda attraction* can not compair to love making. That point where all your inibitions are out the window and you are so comfortable with the person that you could try anything and achive an amazing orgasm is really what good sex is all about. What is sex without an orgasm? I mean occationally its the act of it that is more fufilling than anything else. but being caught in a relationship that NEVER provides an orgasm (mental or physically) just wont last.
I dont have a very high sex drive so a male craving sex from me all the time is expected. And dont get me wrong, some woman may clame that they hate the pawing and constant keeping up to their mens sex, but the act of him oogling me just makes me feel so wanted. I thrive for compassion, affection and touching from someone - but i do not need the constant fucking upon fucking. A good session is all that i need, even if its just four play without the end result of penitration, it can keep me a happy camper. So meeting someone with LESS sex drive than i have, just wont cut it.

Just a reflection.

*sweetner, a replacement for the real thing