hljoynes

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New tattoo.

So a month ago my mom passed away from a long battle with cancer.

I've decided it's time I stop holding myself back now. So next year I'm hoping to do a little road trip around Europe. The first time I've ever gone away on my own. Anxiety has always held me back.

So I'm hoping to find some nice people on sg (boys and...
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From 18st to this in 8 months. So proud of myself

So I was slightly shocked today, looking through the news feed and come across a set where there is a girl with a clearly eating disorder allowed to post a set up.

My first thought is it shouldn't be allowed, is this promoting underweight glamor?

My second thought is the opposite, more aimed at the girl rather than the viewers. If she was not allowed...
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amberx:

I think your concern comes from a very kind place, but it's easy to just straight to 'eating disorders' when looking at a site with models. Her weight could be because of anything, from drug problems to a possible medical issues. No one knows. It's could be completely out of her control. She could be fighting to be okay with the way she looks. Either way, getting a set up is a difficult process, that she took the time to go through. I'm sure your concern is coming from a good place but if they put limits on how thin a girl can be, they'd also have to put limits on how big a girl could be. Which seems to go against the whole idea of this site.

Mar 22, 2016

hljoynes:

I totally understand where you are coming from, my main concern is the well being of this girl, but an over weight girl is in less immediate danger than a seriously under weight one. it's a very sensitive subject, and just want to be clear I mean no disrespect by this.

Mar 22, 2016

Thinking of doing a mini road trip, anyone in the USA have a spare room to rent for a few days, want to try and do north to south down the east coast. Happy to pay for accommodation, but think it will add to the adventure if i meet new people.

I have never been good at not planning things to the fine details, but...
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